Someone has been researching ;)
Extricate yourself from the system, you are also a person, and you can extricate your children once you're out because they're minors. Not saying that's easy, but it is the solution.
The system is designed so that it can only deal with the person. Courts cannot hear you if you are not the person. If you go to court and try to say you're not the person you're the man, but you're talking to the court, they get jurisdiction and you lose. It's a very insidious setup, and you really have to get your ducks in a row to stand against it, but it can be done.
It's not something I am well versed in myself, but have been looking in to.
Best to you