It is all perspective @papa-pepper but I agree cities are big traps. They are also a simmering pot for hate and dislike as well as indifference and apathy.
Most city people even though they are surrounded by people have limited interaction outside of the home unless purchasing something or working. Cities make people live on top of each other and stay indoors too much. Seasonal disorder is high due to lack of sunlight and people are truly antisocial in the cities from what I have seen from the outside looking in.
Good point!