"You want to come in my life, the door is open, You want to get out of my life, the door is open. Just one little request. Please don’t stand in the door, You are blocking the traffic."
Today's thoughts on friendship
Sometimes it's not easy to nurture and hold on to superficial and complicated friendships. You might find yourself to let go of some old ones to make place for new ones or just for yourself.
People change over the years. We change! Our priorities are shifting.
There comes a time when you know that too many compromises don't work anymore.
In older age, your expectations are so much higher because you know well that time is running out and it doesn't make sense to surround yourself with people who misjudge you, cannot understand nor accept you for who you are.
There is no reason to hold on.
I am thankful for my soulmates and loyal ones and cherish them more than ever.
I wish all others a wonderful life! You as well as me, deserve to be cared for and loved!
Hello "Old " & New Steemians, my so called incredibly,joyful, future and present online friends, I value more than I could ever imagine that I would.
I come from a generation where you had to make friends in real life only, to build up a deep connection and for many years since the internet is present, I hesitated to trust in online relations but steemit obviously changed my view drastically.
Friendster was first, Space followed and what happened after Facebook, we all know but I was still suspicious most of the time.
Something feels very different with YOU "Steemit People" and the Cryptoworld, I am fascinated with, compared to all those other social networks. I always felt more home in the "Underground". Mainstream stuff was never my kind of taste.
I trust most Steemians because I read their honest stories about their lives, art and awesome projects and @connecteconomy's previous soulful article " The Stories I Know About You Humans of Steemit Now", proved me even more that we are all lovable "HUMANS".
It feels good to be a part of this community, the "Soulchain" and I sincerly do hope that it will last for many years to come.
I enjoy voting for your contributions, mostly manually and wish I would not drain my voting power that fast.
Faces to Steemit Icons are priceless!
I am so happy to know all of you, especially the ones I met at both @steemfest's in Amsterdam and Lisbon. I missed the ones who could not make it this year but what joy to meet some of you again. Slowly but surly Steemit will grow and new deepened friendships and their respectful projects develop.
I am amazed every day about your comments. My last post made it up to 123! Wow!
Keep it up and have a wonderful weekend! Don't ever get frustrated and let go of the Drama.
My next post will show pictures of everybody I met in Lisbon. Here is a preview
Yours Mammasitta who needs urgently a nice footer! Who could help me?
Keep on spreading the MassiVe Vibes and also follow @massivevibration....ssss
Feel free to join my steemit chat channels at "mammasittas, austria, massivevibrations and baliohbali " to post your links. Follow also on Twitter #steemitvibes
Supporting @welovesteemit and @qsounds
Envious of those who got a chance to meet you. I have never but I feel like your soul is heavy with love and peace. Your trying to help as much people as you can here tells quite a lot. I will wait patiently on the line of who those who would love to meet you because I am so sure I ain't alone... For now please understand that your soul is wealth :)
Love from Africa ❤
You are a queen of soulful words and you have no idea how happy you just made me. My door is open......and you came in ....The Land, Mother Africa heard My soul speak. It’s so nice to meet you here in this new virtual way. I can feel you “Sister” . I also thank you with a song I like so much :
Aaaaaawwwww! Such a powerful song to say thank you. I am in tears... See you when our tomorrow gets here gorgeous :)
I love African music since I was on tour with Femi Kuti
Femi Kuti? You was on tour with a legend!!!
Its really sad that we break so many friendships in our life journey, steemit atm is attracting a good crowd but its slowly breaking @mammasitta
So True ! So sad that I met so many and so few are left but at least they are loyal and real!
Yes friendship, when you really need one, the ones not there, are not. Mine and her "friends" were not there for my wife, when I needed to be away for 10 days in the hospital. It is during times like that, when you know who is friends are and who is not. A good person helped my wife and myself, we did not really know him, he was the guy that re-did our driveway, and he had a snow plow business for the winter. He plowed my driveway while I was gone and after I returned with-out charge. A good person, better than our so called close friends.
The reason people flock to and stay flocked @mammasitta, is because you remind us we are human and keep us grounded in our humanity. This was a very nice post. Thank you.
You are a treasure to all who are fortunate to cross paths with you and be part of your smile. I wish we had enough time at SteemFest to tell life stories to better understand and appreciate each other, and yet I feel I must know some of it by default through seeing the current result. You make me smile. :)
Youuuuuuu made me smile even more my sweet new friend! We have a lifetime on steemit to get to know each other better and better. Distance cannot change that! More Mozartkugeln will be stacked up in my luggage to the next @steemfest because when you hand out chocolates you give LOVE with it.
There is such a great movie with Jonny Depp.
I need to watch this! Thanks for the recommendation.
Watch it together with your wife but get her some chocolates first :) Its one of the sweetest love movies I know and a good new topic for another post:) Have a great weekend
Oh I loved that movie, too! :)
Chocolates can do the magic :)
I always love to read from you you do not post here too much but when you post here you write your post from the very core of your heart.
I can’t believe how much kindness and 🌺💕🐬 I get here in this platform. It feels good!
You want to come in my life, the door is open, You want to get out of my life, the door is open. Just one little request. Please don’t stand in the door, You are blocking the traffic.
I love that saying, haven't thought about it for years
I to come from a time of real friendships and relationships, heck I come from when Penpals and snail mail was the only sort of long term relationships LOL
I do find there is something so special with the Steemit Communityand have found forming more special bonds with people on here than I ever have with any other social platform
Hahahaaaa You made me laugh out loud! I know what you mean too well. We had to work hard on our sincere relations. Old school style ....Right?
I am bonding with you for the last comments you write. Hello Helloooooo!!!!
This quote got me started and when I saw this amazing gif image I knew I got a new article.
I loved that gif was awesome
I have never done gifs but this one got me thinking to explore this possibility
May be fun to try even if I don’t make anything good
I found that gif and used their original link. I never tried one myself to be honest. I don't know how, yet :) too much already on my laptop to play around but never too late to learn.
I understand the concept to make the one I want thevteick is to get the right series of photos to get the motion
Also not sure if you have been on Discord I sent a massage Re the banner
Better to catch me in steemit chat but I will look at discord tomorrow
Ohh ok I can send via Steem chat later when I get on the pc
I think life is both about moving forward and letting go. There are only few people who will keep hanging on for longer periods of time and these are the ones you should cherish.
I only have about three, four real friends whom I know I can count on no matter what. In shit times, I know who to call. And those are the ones who matter most.
That’s very true and I can count just a tiny few of those but the older I get the more I realize that I am my own best friend and I can have a hell of a great time with myself and some hash brownies ( hahah oh well not that often )
Ofcourse you have to be your own best friend first - however, I love sharing things and experiences so I guess I would be less out-ey on my own.
💕
Your open heart to all is just so unique. I'm glad to have met you
You are so charming and heartwarming! Thank you so so much for feeling my sincere message of kindness even though I can be quite a dragon if somebody gets me really upset 🤣😜😝🌺 or hurts me.
Everyone has a dragon chained inside of them. All we can do is to tame it
That’s the trick we need to learn how
It's true, sometimes friends who bring destruction for us, when we are a lot of money then there will be many friends who get, there is also a friend who really friend when we fall he who helped us, but the right is the closest family that always support we are either happy or hard. the most important family to keep us in the sick, if friends are still thinking-think first
You speak my mind. I had to learn hard lessons in recent times, loosing more than I ever dreamed of. I did not loose myself though. I saw so well who was next to me "holding my hands, supporting me, accepting my emotional imbalance and who ran away as fast as they could when I spoke up what I would need for a change.
Hey mam you are awesome I would like to always be your best friend because according to me it my experience no relation is better than friendship @mammasitta
So much 💕💕💕
Nice content! Enjoy life and be happy the way you seam to make everyone around you happy, just for meeting you!
Ohhhhhhh you are so kind and charming ! I thank you so so much for such heartwarming words for me 🌺
I am a bit older so I went through the stage of being leery of folks online. Now I have come to see online friendship are every bit as nice as those in real life. For example I see you met my online friend @molometer. I have never met him IRL but have come to know him through the years online through Tsu and YouTube. Its a wonderful thing really.
Congratulations @mammasitta!
Your post was mentioned in the hit parade in the following category:
Yap yapppp there are even more Now than 109 comments 😉😘
You are the queen of steemit without a competitor (;
Wow ! I am blushing 😊
I like the way you think. I think we have all crossed oceans for some who would not cross a puddle for us. Great post.
I crossed oceans and mountains but sometimes I just stopped, sat down and rested
I love the way you write your posts is really beautiful a lot of love and creativity
ohhhhhhh thats so so sweet of you to say. my articles are simple and i am only speaking out of my heart. I think its still at the right spot :) even though a few tried to steal it
Another OUTSANDING post. You are so right about how some treat loyalty and also, in essence , if you are not interested in being friends just move along there are others out there. Steemit is such a friendly social site there are more potential friends than we can touch. I just wish I had more voting power!
I can’t agree more. So many good people we can’t “touch” and we probably would never meet otherwise. You will have more VP soon. Keep going 🐬
Thanks, you are one of Steemit's best "encouragers" on many fronts!
Hello @mammasitta,
Lovely post. Friendships are hard, I'm still young, young enough that I have plenty years left to develop friendships and all the sorts.
I agree that as you get older your expectations do tend to become bigger. However I just thought it would be interesting to open dialogue on that bit. Personally I try not to have expectations at all. Call it cynical of me, but I've been let down so much in the past and I guess it's been my way of guarding myself from people who I know will do me wrong. Anyway just wanted to share my thoughts on that. :)
It was a pleasure meeting you in Lisbon.
OH OH YES !!!!! more to come:) next year!
Definitely
Sehr schön! Ich liebe derartige philosophische Statements.
Ja hallihallo Christian! Das freut mich aber sehr dass Du bei mir vorbei schaust. Danke!!!!
Na heast - München und Wien müssen doch zusammenhalten, oder?
Nau und ob 🤣😘🤗🐬🐬🐬
I've always wanted to have enough time for everyone. This has gotten harder and harder as I've moved and started from scratch so many times. Now I'm starting to realize how many friendships I've lost by spreading myself thin.
It's kind of just part of the modern age, though I am trying my hardest to maintain my strongest relationships while always being open to new ones.
It's so great to read your reflection on friendship @mammasitta. I sometimes like to give people the benefit of the doubt, as life often keeps us tied up and we often loose touch, but I believe that we will reconnect one day. Its awesome how some of the best friends may not have spoken for years, but when they meet again, they take it right from where they left off.
Its so good to see you enjoying at Steemfest! Your blogs are lovely, I might not drop in often, but you are an important part of my steemit journey because you welcome with so much warmth. and hope to see you at a future Steemfest, maybe in the beaches of Goa :) take care, and happy weekend!
So so so so so nice to see you again and beautify my blog post with wonderful words and thoughts. Obrigada! I thank you from the bottom of my soul.
one of the best post i have read today ...
thanks for sharing
wow what honor!!!Thank you so so so much to be that sweet!
Friends; close or far, always in your heart. Real friends never block your way, they always would do the best is for you. Even when you actually wanne hear their advice. But Thats what real friends do... be honest.. deeply
Hello @mammasita i so much love this that teach me that there's another door after exit
Great @bollutech
wonderful to know !!!!
Its my pleasure to learn something from you today . Thanks for this !
Your heart is big, steemfest was a real paradise for new friendships. See you next year @mammasitta
thats so sweet of you to say my new loyal steemian friend :)
Thank you - you are sweet lady from Austria
Wow..sound would be good. Love and friendships want to our life success.
You posted great looking article @mammasitta.
Have a nice day.
great gif right?? i need to find some sound indeed
deine Mozartkugeln waren ja gut gefragt, wie sehen konnte......
hahaha Jajajaaa I know those secrets about choclats
That really was a very good movie, I liked it a lot. The scenery (locales) they chose was a very big part of the movie.
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Excellent article and the very theme of friendship very much like me! I greet you, my friend and I want to answer that the sincerity of relations, the truth in communication - that's friendship. Thank you @mammasitta
Beautifully said and I realise that I should have used better vocabulary. I like The "sincerity of relations" Voila!
You said better, you said about the spirit of friendship, not many talk about it, that's what's valuable! Thank you, now I'm your friend!
superrrrrrrrrrr:) Yes I did mean the spirit of friendship and soulship :)
Wow nice animation..........///////
OH YES ! my inspiration for this article!
Haha :)
I didn't know you had dedicated channels - fancy!
So many friends to make (or smile at) and do little time!
Have a great weekend 😁
I joined June 2016! I had lots of time to support many many people I saw coming and go but those channels stayed :) I wish you a wonderful weekend as well.
An early starter indeed!
I am always jumping first into the wild :) and see what happens later
A great life policy! (Unless it's an alligator river perhaps!) 😁
Hiii @mammasitta, what a great and impressive article you shared. There is too much in these line:
Here in this paragraph too much to understand, suggestions and guideline for friendship and steemians.. Love to read that. Good work , Thanks.
Yap Yap :)
I needed that kiss hahah ! Cute
thanks for sharing your thoughts on friendship, " there is no reason to hold on" that really resonated with me". Something I needed to hear, thanks for bringing it to me. Love and light from a new friend x
This door was open .....and here you are 🐬🐬🐬 Holding on to the wrong friends drags you down sooner or later. Too much drama involved and it confuses me. I got caught up in a lot of stupid and energy-robbing situations.
I know exactly what you mean, there is only so much you can give. friendship should be rewarding not draining. xx
All friends are very good. In reality, true friends rarely meet. Friends make all. There are very few who work together. i like it the your post.
keep on looking for the real ones .....I never give up to find
true friend! mammasitta
So Cool😍😍😍
good thoughts sooooo
Wonderful animation, nice life inspiration concept of forever friendship.
You give extremely very faster vote power to commentors. Highly appreciated. Awesome post @mammasitta.
Have a nice weekend.
My way of saying thank you to be my loyal steemian friend 🤗
Wow wonderful concept of friendship. Before build up friendships must require start normally affair each others. After pass long term at least 6 months can be best one. But keep it very tough task. lot of thing require to do. Dont need worst things, much needed love, kind etc..You have longer experience these topic. Steemit was great place to buildup friendships all around the world to me. I am glad.
I feel the same and still surprised that its possible to get to know people so well in an online community. I am so old school but I changed :)
friends come and go its the one who matter who is always there beneath you :)
Friendship never die ..always begin...
There are a lot of wonderful new people here on this platform! Hello!!!!!
i appreciated your friendship.
meeeeee toooooooo
wow nice post I like it @technical.google
super superrrrrrr
Great post thanks for sharing it's so simple and unique
Nice way of looking at my words
congrats...
for ??? but thanks anyways
this is a great post
follow me plz
Really nice & smart post....!!...I like it.👌
thanks much
Nice post
cool to say !
Pretty Cool!
what part :) thanks anyways