@gbenga, you are absolutely right, these two set of people has a role to play in your life, and unless you identify that particular role they are there to play and place them according to where they belong, you miss it all, but the worst thing is that you will possibly like the first set of people than the second because the first will tolerate you for the now but harm you at a long run while the second will scorn and correct you for the now which is for your own good and later favour ls you.
THANKS FOR SHARING