Erotic Playdates are when you and your partner set aside a specific time for passion play. You plan for (and look forward to) sensual "private" activities where you come together beginners to learn new things together.
Think of Erotic Playdates as fun "couples sexercises" that grow and enrich your intimacy - physical and emotional.
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Last week we talked about the basic kinds of touches you could use for Erotic Playdates.
This week, let's talk about the basic strokes.
Different people display varying tolerances for friction. This tolerance depends on your partner's level of ease and comfort with you, and the idea of being touched in a more intimate, heart-connected way.
Now, you can try and experiment with these strokes during a playdate, or even when you're out and about in public.
Try sneaking one on your partner as you're grocery shopping, watching a movie with the kids, or even when you're eating at a restaurant.
Experiment with stroking over your partner's skin, versus stroking through the skin with these basic stroke patterns:
- Up and Down
Make a variety of tiny, medium, and large up-and-down strokes on your partner's skin. You can choose to do them in places of their body where they're more sensitive to touch.
- Circles
Make circular strokes of various sizes. Be sure to tell your partner what you are doing. For example, you might say, "I am making small circles, with a center at about 9 o'clock."
- Ellipses
These are shaped like eggs and are convenient when stroking your partner in narrow spaces. When you're seated, or with your backs against the wall, or in any position where not a lot of their body surface is exposed to you.
- Horseshoe Tracing
Same with ellipses, but with a "U-shape" instead of egg-shape. Tell your partner you are doing this specific type of stroke and ask if they like it. Constantly ask for feedback. Make it part of your Erotic Playdate practice.
- Pad Versus Tip
Touch your partner with the pad of your finger. Then contrast this type of stroking by touching them with just the tip of your finger. Ask which one your partner prefers.
- Different Number Of Fingers (And Different Fingers)
Experiment with touching your partner with different numbers and sets of fingers, as well as using different fingers than the ones you usually use to touch them. This makes the sensation a little bit different every time.
- Palm of Your Hand
You can even try stroking your partner with your entire palm at once. This makes it feel like you're giving them a loving massage.
As with all Erotic Playdates, remember to communicate, ask for feedback, and receive feedback openly and honestly. And of course, have lots of fun with each other.
Remember, these Playdates only help you and your partner strengthen your relationship, as well as add more exciting activities you can do to and with each other.
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