Wow! this was an amazing read and yes! I do believe that there are more people addicted (or again perhaps using the wrong word) but spending too much time on a device or gaming.
I didn't let my kids slide into the babysitting mode of parenting by letting them be on devices or games for hours on end. Childhood and friends come but once through and I would rather they spend that time making human interaction than with a game.
Life without people? That is what many would rather have. A day gaming instead of true interactions with people?
No thanks.
Great write and you bring up so many interesting points! Thank you!
I think it is important to distinguish between spending too much time and being an addict. Lot's of people spend too much time. It doesn't mean they can't control it. It just means they prioritize it. You can always give them the quiz to see if they are an addict. If they start lying about the answers or refuse, better tread carefully and seek advice on how to help them. Someone who just plays too much will likely rationalize with you and may even be up for a better suggestion or make time to do something else if it interests them.