I'm not sure I understood... but games are far away from "realistic". Sure, we are inching closer, but still a long way to go.
As for VR, we'll have to wait till next-gen. Graphics take a nosedive on PS VR, and it's no surprise there's no Xbox VR. The VR headsets themselves need much higher resolution to overcome the "screen door effect". We need at least 4K per eye so we don't see the pixels. Good news is the display technology is already here / will be mainstream by 2018. Bad news, console GPUs aren't powerful enough for those. So, next-gen consoles should see more happening around VR.