Yeah the mmo genre feels burnt out and it's pretty sad.
I played Ragnarok as my first mmo. It was one of the few my computer could handle. A lot of funny memories. Big WOE battles. Hunting mvps. Guildies getting married. I never found a waifu in a game myself :P
I really liked that you could open a shop anywhere and sell potions and gear. In later updates you could also buy loot from others that way.