It's so oblivious and dehumanizing and garbage. Like, me existing in your vicinity is not an invitation to chat me up, dudes. It really isn't, I promise.
This is the thing im fine for chatting but he was obviously only interested in figuring out how to get in my e-pants 😂. If you want to chat me up im cool but slow your ass down im not a drivethrough. Its easy to look me up and learn basic details. At that, this is like work for me. So getting this kinda dms where someone is basically asking A/s/l like this is msn pickup site is not only icky, it's annoying AND AGAIN.. it doesn't work. Treat women like humans if after a while of chatting you connect, you can ask about dating/sex/whatever once you earn trust and respect.
Whereas I am, like, demisexual, so a dude who doesn't already have a friendship/relationship with me has just about a 0% chance of getting with me from an unsolicited dm. It's just not gonna happen, so he's wasting both of our time.
Because they plug their ears and cry "angry feminist omg!!"
It's so oblivious and dehumanizing and garbage. Like, me existing in your vicinity is not an invitation to chat me up, dudes. It really isn't, I promise.
This is the thing im fine for chatting but he was obviously only interested in figuring out how to get in my e-pants 😂. If you want to chat me up im cool but slow your ass down im not a drivethrough. Its easy to look me up and learn basic details. At that, this is like work for me. So getting this kinda dms where someone is basically asking A/s/l like this is msn pickup site is not only icky, it's annoying AND AGAIN.. it doesn't work. Treat women like humans if after a while of chatting you connect, you can ask about dating/sex/whatever once you earn trust and respect.
Whereas I am, like, demisexual, so a dude who doesn't already have a friendship/relationship with me has just about a 0% chance of getting with me from an unsolicited dm. It's just not gonna happen, so he's wasting both of our time.