From time immemorial it has always been and is considered to this day that a real man (tm) must unconditionally be an advocate for his woman. And in principle it is correctly considered that a man is physically stronger and more fit for power options for solving problems. But are such variants always relevant to modern reality?
Last night, my girlfriend and I decided to go to the club to drink something delicious, listen to the new DJ, listen to a good time, and there was an unpleasant situation: some drunken boor did insult my girl.
On all the canons of Hollywood, seeing this, I had to immediately cut down the bully or effectively kick him out through the glass window of the institution to the street, and then with beautiful staging techniques like Van Damm throw in all directions a dozen or two other friends who came running to help him, after which, spitting to say something like "asshole" proudly take the girl by the hand and stepping over the battered beaten bodies, go to the bar to entertain further.
But you understand perfectly well that if I were even Van Damme (and I'm far from him), in reality everything would be different, and most likely, I would fight, the case would end with the police. That is, the evening would have been spoiled both for me and for the girl, and I do not think that she would appreciate it when instead of hangouts in the club, she would have had to go around the city for me to look for money on bail for the night.
On the other hand, this can not be released on the brakes either, as they say in many manuals on the pickup: "She will lead you by the sleeve of the bully who has offended her, but if she let herself be led away, she will despise you all the time left before separation"
Yesterday's situation was decided without my participation, the guards appeared in time to see the brewing brawl tearing the hooligan and handed him to the police from sin away, but what if this situation once again happens again, there will not be a guard next to you and will have to make your own decision. What should I do to get into a fight or not?
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