Hi ibu, nice to meet you, but sorry to hear of your girl troubles. I think it makes you a full fledged member of the human adult population because I think we all have had relationship issues. My only advice would be to think outward instead of inward until you feel better. Maybe volunteer in your community or throw yourself into writing about things that make you happy here on Steemit.
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