You cannot use individual events to justify how to deal with something. I could say that a home owner buys a gun, and a robber comes into their home that very night with another gun. The homeowner defends the home and saves the day. Does that justify letting everyone own a gun? Ofcourse not.
The real question here is how do we find the middle ground, and unless you are open to that middle ground (which requires you to understand the whole picture) it becomes a standstill.
Thats where we are in this country right now. we are at a complete stand still because both sides are unwilling to understand the other side.
but how do you see the solution to this issue? where is the middle?
There is no middle