I AM THE KIND OF BROTHER

I am the kind of brother that will boldly wear an engagement ring to show that I am now available only to ONE;

I am the kind of brother that will always remember to flush the toilet and not leave my wife to deal with that alone;

I am the kind of brother that will wash the dishes sometimes before my wife gets out of bed;

I am the kind of brother that will buy my own toothpaste before I let it cause a problem in my marriage;

I am the kind of brother that would rather use the public bus than go out with the family car and have her standing under the sun or in the rain with our child.

I am the kind of brother that would let my wife dish the meal while I fetch my own drinking water, I married a help meet not a house help;

I am the kind of brother that doesn't see a problem taking the dish to the kitchen after eating just to lessen the load for my wife;

I am the kind of brother that will never sleep in separate rooms from my wife for any reason, no matter the heat of the fight;

I am the kind of brother that will serve her breakfast in bed to give her a rest;

I am the kind of brother that will stay with the kids so she can go to the salon;

I am the kind of brother that will ask if she has dirty cloths that needs washing when i am washing mine;

I am the kind of brother that would rather beat myself up inside than lay a hand on my wife;

I am the kind of brother that would go to work each day to make sure my family lacks nothing;

I am the kind of brother that would always consider the opinion of my wife before taking a decision;

I am the kind of brother who would rather be home early than hang out at the bar with the boys;

I am the kind of brother whose best friends are also my wife's friends;

I am the kind of brother who will take care of my wife's family the same way I take care of mine;

I am the kind of brother who will never bypass my wife to go discuss the family problems with her in-laws.....

I am calling all single men to rise up and make a change in this generation, we have been bounded by the traditions of men for too long, traditions that opposes God's design for marriage and equality, traditions that make us look like masters before our wives rather than friends.

Can we make a resolution to treat our wives with the same love, care and respect we expect from them?

Can we make a resolution to look upon our wives as our equal rather than our slaves and competition?

Let us go back to Eden. Let us go back to that perfect blueprint for marriage. Let us go back to God's design for marriage where paying bride price does not take away the ability to do all the things you used to do for yourself when you were still single.

How many of us are ready to break beyond human traditions and do marriage the way God has intended for it to be done?