If you want to go into the past and the future in your mind, go where it helps to go, go into that point where your spouse has died and you're sitting there saying, "I'd give anything to have them back."
So very true! Gratitude for your partner is what counts most. Remembering that essentially they are your best friend in this world is what carries you through everything as a "team". Being there to lift one another up when it is needed most is what builds an unbreakable bond!
Lovely, LOVELY post!
Much love to you and your beautiful wife xxx