Those are some good relationship tips. I too like to read Eckhart Tolle books he has some deep poignant stuff that make total sense when you think about them. Very true a good relationship starts with you. Going into the future when your spouse won't be there is such a powerful strategy. Thank you for sharing with us @jerrybanfield, this was such an excellent post. Wishing you and your wife lots of happiness and a long death do me part marriage. Goodnight :)