@jerrybanfield, that was very helpful to me. I needed a tool to employ when I get argumentative with my wife. I struggle with recovering my cool when I lose it.
In the past I either became more aggressive or just shut down and scowled. Either way, it was my issue, not her's. I certainly enjoy my wife, in my life, versus the alternative. I will keep your thoughts in the back of my mind and employ them when I feel myself getting annoyed. It's my problem, not her's.
Thanks Jerry.