Hello delightful souls, I would like to share with you the presence of life after deciding to free myself from letting go of the past memories that were hurting me, by just trusting the Universe and surrendering my flesh. Being my first blog post, I have decided to let you know that everything happens for a reason and although you may not understand it now, it is not necessary to do so. Don't hurt yourself by trying to find an explanation for what is currently happening, everything has a reason. Instead, take control of your actions by reacting the best way possible. Throughout your life there are great revelations you will only be able to see if you live in the present, they will be of great meaning to your future if you learn to trust in the Universal power of living in a present state of mind.
With the many experiences I have encountered I finally came to the conclusion that for many of us, it may be difficult to simply be present and aware and how to react wisely in different situations. How wouldn't it be difficult? Let's be real, after being exposed to a World of different opinions and points of view we are also constantly bombarded with cliche news stating what is 'Good and Bad' that it has become easy to get lost and tangled in your mind. One of the things I've noticed is that the simple things in life become the hardest at some point if you are constantly over thinking and worrying about everything. This really brings frustration and leads to unhappiness. The lack of focusing on positive things is easy when you learn how to become aware of when to make a switch in your brain. First thing I highly suggest, is to not take anything personal, ANYTHING. That means you must know your definition and not let anything affect you, because nothing you give permission to, will affect you.
And guess what, there is no such thing as right and wrong, since everyone has different perspectives, points of views, and yes, a past that has formed them there are things that will be right to you but not to others. I think that it is mostly about learning how to respect and understand that we should not try to control everything and try to be right about all. Regardless of socioeconomic and culture, the human being is able to adapt and learn how to embrace change, but that only happens when you have the clarity of being aware and master to identify what triggers our brain and mind when we have poor reactions. By 'poor reactions' I relate to anything that makes you angry or mad, frustration or, that leads to any negative feeling and emotion. Now, keep in mind that I don't mean that we should ignore these feelings and avoid them by all means, not at all. We are human beings and must embrace these feelings as naturally as possible, what causes trouble and pain it is when we use our emotions to harm or hurt others. The thing about this is that many of the times we react unconsciously, why do these unintended things happen? Let's do a quick check! It must be because of our programming, we have been self-conditioned to react like in a way since we were little, and only know this form of "love". Sometimes we think a behavior is normal since that's what we have embedded in our blueprint and also received throughout our entire life.
Here are some steps to recognizing we are reacting badly and not living consciously:
Stop and think
Observe (be careful though don't go into depth)
Will your answer be kind and constructive
Is the person asking for an opinion, or do they just want to be listened to
Thank you for not spilling the beans and caring for others'
The World needs more love and kindness, please spread it, remember that LOVE is free! ;)
Thank you for your blessings :)
you are welcome @lonestarpoet, In lak′ech 💞
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