Trust and love are the two pillars of marriage – if even one shakes, then the entire foundation of marriage crumbles.
This makes sense actually. If a woman is happy in a relationship, she might provide care, support and overall benefits which might make a man’s life easier. She will take care of his primal needs, provide emotional comfort and also share the household responsibilities. The husband then really has nothing to complain.
My Love story with this man started when i was just 14 years old. yeah! too young for that love. 6 years now of being together as husband and wife, still full of love and excitement. Just give and take, if your partner is mad or angry just let him/her , always give them a time for themselves, don't let them feel that your trying to control everything for them.
A happy marriage doesn’t just arrive because you say “I do.” It takes effort from husband and wife to make it work.
Some tips to help and make the most rewarding relationship you will ever have:
Put the other first
Not second behind you. Not behind your children. Especially not behind your parents. First. That starts with putting aside or scaling back on some things that may have taken a lot of time before you were married, such as movies, sports, spending time with friends instead of your spouse, and video games. We know that can seem hard. At the same time, it quickly becomes second nature and more and more enjoyable.
Listen
Men, this is especially directed at you. Your wives really want you to listen to them. We aren’t saying “acknowledge that your wife is speaking while you’re busy watching football and actually not hearing anything at all.” Listen to her. Stop what you are doing, look at her, and hear what she is saying. Listen so intently that you can actually give feedback and tell her what she is talking about. She doesn’t want you to solve her problems (in fact, she’d probably prefer that you don’t), she just wants to know you care and will help if needed.
Spend time alone together
Too often it’s easy to get into a routine where kids, friends, and media are your constant companions. Unplug, slip away, and reconnect with each other. We like to take one trip away every year, even if it’s just for a night or two.
Lastly, Forgiveness
Forgiveness is not easy. It is not cheap. It is costly and it is difficult but if we are to truly be successful, not only in our marriages but in life, we can call on our Savior and He can help us forgive our spouses and remove the cancer of bitterness, anger, and revenge.
i agree of everything you said ,it is very important also that you always put your spouse first before others. thanks for sharing this with us .God Bless :)
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