that's sweet and self reflective - which I really respect.
However, perhaps your perception of hate vs hate is what is to be challenged. I would prefer water with fire. Now I know fire with fire is the general term, but water kills as well. Basically I have tried to use facts in many of my arguments (with hateful people), and they generally do nothing self-reflective other than what their emotions are telling them. You cannot reason with such individuals. This then VERY sadly forces people to take stand in life. Perhaps it's akin to killing a murderer; but we don't have to enjoy it and make it as QUICK and humane as possible.
I politely disagree. We can let it drop.