Another energy technique that has helped a lot of vets is Emotional Freedom Technique (aka EFT or Tapping). Here's a Youtube vid showing the success some of them have had:
I did a couple of posts on EFT last year:
• Emotional Freedom Technique Part 1
• EFT Part 2 – Getting started
I watched the video and it was quite amazing. I will be sure to read your posts too because this is an avenue I am interested in exploring.
I know how much effort you've been putting into moving on, so I'd be thrilled if this helps too.