I dreamed that my wife had completely recovered after great effort on my part (something that I'm really working on today and do see positive results). Suddenly she decides that she wants a divorce (which in reality, for her, is out of the question) and finds herself close to marrying someone else. We get divorced and I really encourage her and thank her for her new life. She wants to thank me and tries to kiss me and I slip away telling her we cannot be close to each other now.
I am 41 years old, ultra-Orthodox Jewish. My wife is diagnosed with schizophrenia, she is treated with pills, and there is a noticeable improvement in her behavior at home. She is a wonderful woman, our relationship is excellent, we have been married for seventeen years and feel like we are living in an on-going honeymoon.
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An interesting dream you dreamed.
The dream tells you that everything is okay with your wife. At the core, there is no problem. Only during the dream when the barriers of the mind and ego go down, you are able to perceive the real situation as it is. In essence, your wife's soul is healthy (you may want to read my post about taking pills. The dream leaves no room for doubt about her health. Of course, the work you do has a tremendous contribution to her recovery. Thanks to your love, patience, and perhaps the sense of mission you survive this crisis.
In the second part, the dream tries to convey a message to you about both the real cause of the situation and the proper way of living from here on. Please read the following carefully and check for yourself if this is appropriate for you. Use discretion:
In order to reach a complete cure and to prevent the situation from getting worse, you will have to abandon some of the attitudes that currently limit you. These attitudes affect you, your wife, and your family. As an ultra-Orthodox person, you are bound by many prohibitions. These are the commandments and instructions that you have been given by virtue of being within the framework of the religious system. I do not judge this framework - for better or for worse.
The dream tells you that it's time to look carefully at your place in it. And perhaps even to disengage from the religious system. Your wife, because she has a unique mental structure has felt from an early age that the system of prohibitions limits her self-expression as a person. She felt torn between her duty to you, her husband, her religion and family and her duty to her inner self who wanted to express in many ways. As a faithful woman, this inner conflict has created two systems for her, two personalities. But it should be remembered that at the core of the inner self there is no such separation.
You represent for her the intellectual part, the mind, the part of the prohibitions (in the dream you did not allow yourself to touch her). It's hard for her. She wants more freedom (not from you, from the restrictions) and in the dream, she divorced you and felt good.
We do not feel limited in being ultra-Orthodox. In fact, we have become religious only in our adult life and do not see any restriction in the change that has been done to us. In addition, with regard to the prohibitions that you mentioned, the opposite is true. I am the one who constantly looks to ease the restrictions and she seeks to take on more limits. For example, she does not want Internet at home and she wants me to devote more of my time to study the bible.
What you wrote only strengthened my opinion because there is still within you the secular part that has been suppressed since you have become religious. The secular side and the ultra-Orthodox side clash. For your wife, the collision is more felt because, according to you, she is more rigid with herself.
In order to live in peace with herself (while maintaining her religious life routine), she felt a strong need to suppress the secular side, to trample it. Obviously, such approach is not practical. It is impossible to sweep parts of consciousness beneath the 'soul carpet'. They must erupt eventually.
When the personality feels imprisoned, it may create a secondary personality who lives in peace alongside the first one. Hence, the schizophrenic diagnosis.
The dream, then, reflects your concern that your wife will not accept your leniency, your moderate approach, but will strive to be more extreme and more diligent in fulfilling the prohibitions and commandments.
On another level, closer to you, the dream speaks of your own fear of your own approach, that your moderate attitude towards your religion might not be accepted by your God. These are issues that you will need to examine with your self, because it is your attitudes and beliefs that shape the reality of your world, including your life next to your wife.
Good Luck.
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Religion is used as an excuse to imprison the mind. Orthodox is considered an idealism. So he insisted on maintaining the principle. whereas, there is no such thing as a conclusion as long as the brain is still thinking. The error lies in how to interpret dreams.
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What a great joy for me to read that you refer to my words as science 🙏
I am also very happy Master @nomad-magus. My way of thinking and my mindset adds up during your post. I already feel the difference. Thank you very much.
you should enjoy the moment that you were together instead of having a fear that's only a dream, maybe in reality you have a fear that you'll be divorced with your wife once you'll get separated, and that fear became your dream. So enjoy the present moment with your wife and stop worrying because worry is worse than your dream. :)
"We all ride towards our death, those who worry whip their horses."
A great quote; can't recite it's source though.
It’s amazing how you can communicate with people and at the same time to give them a great advice. They eventually have to choose their own direction, but you clearly tell them which way is the bumpy road, which way is the dead end and which way is the smooth road. That’s why I love reading your posts every single time. Everytime it’s possible.
BTW: I’m excided to be part of your April contest.
Thanks, mate, for the feedback.👍
Stay tuned, it's going to be different than last month.
"and do not see any restriction in the change that has been done to us"
Yeah, as you say 'suppressed'.
That is the thing with suppressing our fears until our conscious forgets about them. The energy never dissolves without acceptance and letting go. Instead, it becomes stuck, and over time there is so much energy traffic that we lose the appropriate screw driver for the corresponding screw, so to speak. Quite understandable that we are on a complete loss then as to where we should start 'investigating', without anything to latch on to.
What an epiphany by your customer to turn to a dream expert! :)
And this is one of the biggest problems that people have in our era, in which the mind seems to be the new know-all God. Not easy to get out of this, but simple.
Stop thinking. 🙂
😃 Stop thinking is exactly what I tell people, but only if I am explicitly asked for my opinion, otherwise I prefer to have their own experiences.
'Stop thinking' is one of those recommendations that are greeted with huge rejection by those who are still caught in the quagmire of thinking as a means of productivity and success. Only think of the saying "I think therefore I am" which insinuates that in order to be we have to do...
But from another perspective, what great evidence of the fact that we can even indulge in the most bizarre ideas without lasting consequences ever ;)
Only if we remember that the ideas are not ours, never have been, and better not be.😉
your writing is amazing @ noma-magus.
I was touched to read it very beautiful.
this is my reason why i every day want to read your post,
because you are always talking about love, life, and family.
I really like it because of the amazing experience I can take in every post you
Thanks for the kind words, mate 🙏
the same hope that our future will be better again.
keep doing the best for everyone so that people can be inspired from you. @nomad-magus
Hi @nomad-magus
I have pretty some knowledge about dreams but the divorce part is a bit confusing for me though am really greatful that I have learnt some thing from your interpretation
Thanks David
dreams are always never true :)
😉
Always
Never
dream reflecting hearth, inner hearth has hope, so the dream reflecting the hope..
it's my feeling 😐
otra vez amigo me has atrapado con tu publicación, yo tengo un hijo que es epiléptico y también ha tenido episodios de esquizofrenia, eso nos ha tenido mal en la familia pero poco a poco con amor paciencia y dedicación a el hemos superado saludos .
Your son is very gentle and sensitive. The energies of this harsh physical realm are sometimes too much for him to bear and therefore he detaches himself.
Take him to nature.
As you said, slowly he will be able to adjust.
Blessings.
Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.
hahaha
guesss we aint that lucky :p
Which reminds me the April contest that I plan to conduct. I think you will have a good chance to express yourself then. Stay tuned, two weeks.
about this dream and reality is a mystery, which we do not know whether it is a sign or just a sleeping flower.
your writing is very good I will reblog your post.
Nice blog. I just started following you.
(If you are interested in Qablah, I am doing a series of art where I explore Binah... amongst other themes.)
Welcome.
I have never learned Kaballah formally, but I do love art. In all forms.
That knowledge is stored in your DNA and you are intuitively expressing it all over this blog in a lot of ways. And if you ever do take on formal study, I think you can probably get quite far.
First of that's a dream analysis is less of a science, and more of a review of the possible ways that you think, feel, and process memories while you sleep. The images of dreams are not always literal. More often they represent other things that are going on in our lives.
In a dream about your partner leaving, your partner may represent something else. Keep that in mind as you analyze your dreams.
Dreaming about a partner leaving you might not be all bad. So chill that and enjoy your life.
After reading your family words, I realized that you loved your wife a lot.
The dreamer, indeed.
dream is hard to predict @nomad-magus.
hopefully you are fine
Dreams are always things of fantasy
Do not give it any attention
reality and dream two are difference,,,we should obey reality not dream
now hacur a family karna cause with drugs may be destroyed households, tapih sometimes "there are other problems still we do not know with household people, tapih nowadays this man is more important pleasure himself than he remember his wife and child his
always be nice at the time together ... this is an extraordinary opportunity, spend time with loved ones .. appreciate that time while still together
Dream gave us the idea of future and mostly our dream are about the thing we think whole day and in sleeping time is in our mind.
many man see different dream, dreams are always never true so s good post sir.
for me the dream is just a flower of sleep that the truth can not we make sure, do not easily believe with the dream experienced, it could be just a temptation of the devil
Within us are the devil and God alike. Then what? 🤔
if you experience a nightmare then let's just say it's just a sleeping flower, do not be a burden. Let's just say it's a fantasy that will not happen in reality.
thanks a lot for upvote my posting @ nomad-mag.
Amazing
its not acceptable for society to obey dream,,,its great of find yourself through real world
your wife is on schzophrenia
its not so alll,,its need to see her hearted of love,,,its need to looking on her eye,,,its society its love its obey to mankind,,,divorce not give any solution,,,its great of reality,,,i appreciate your post