When my wife and I refused this jab for our baby, the hospital staff went nuts, called out their lawyers and made it into a huge ordeal. My (now ex) wife caved under the pressure, but we had both already signed the waiver and I refused to remove my signature, so our son didn't get this leukemia-inducing poison.
Issues like this cost me my marriage, and ultimately custody of my kid. But at least it's some consolation knowing I did what I could to prevent him being poisoned during the formative years.
What a flip-out! Doctors sure can hate being questioned. Sorry you were both bullied so badly. It can take a lot of grit to stick with the plan of avoiding Vit K, especially if one spouse waivers.
Good for you for doing the right thing for your child.