"Above my pay grade" and experience level how you folks find out things like this @pfunk. But I sure appreciate you stopping by and letting me know this was the case.
While she didn't change my mind on why I did what I did, we hope people learn that it is not personal and change their ways and go on.
What you have pointed out is an entirely different matter and casts her whole effort in a very different and disturbing light ...
Thanks again!