Most people are complete morons and give advice based on what celebrities on Twitter tell them.
There's a difference between refusing to vaccinate and refusing to vaccinate while being uninformed just as there is between opting to vaccinate and opting to vaccinate while being uninformed. Each vaccine has a pullout of ingredients that comes with it that all doctors will provide upon request. Some ingredients offer more risk than others.
My kid is the same age as yours and we're vaccinating with everything except for the MMR and Varicella. MMR has too many claims against it and Varicella is unnecessary as both of us had chickenpox. I should qualify this also by saying our kid doesn't attend daycare.