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I am truly sorry to hear about your story. It is a simple question because I felt sorry for many " dishonest" members before here since 2016. I did not say that you ARE NOT honest and just want to be careful and not believing everything. If you say that you have to go through such painful times, its very sad and I wish you lots of strength.

Hey mammasitta,

Although I understand you have your own stories and frustrations, please consider this the next time:

  • There's a person behind every blog!
  • The way you asked me this 'simple question' was quite harsh and came out of the blue (I've never seen you on Steemit before). The tone of the comment 'Really Unbelievable...' is very accusational.

I'm actually shaking from your comment. This accident has left me in mourning for lost mobility (I'm only thirty years old and have to use a cane from time to time) and one of my biggest dreams (to travel the world) not coming true. It really does hurt someone questioning that. I've had a lot of pain from even writing down this story, which is not an easy and very vulnerable thing to do, and is part of my healing process.

The tone of your second comment definitely is better, but it's also clear you're still suspicious. You're allowed to be, of course, but please try to treat people with respect and room for doubt first. I am a positive thinking person and although dishonest people exist I would think the majority of people is honest, and therefore this is the way we should treat people when we have no information on them yet.

Thanks in advance,
Rosanne

After this respons mammasitta decided to mute me. I would think I was quite understanding in my comment considering how she treated me :-)