This is beautiful and amazing! Squish and Squirt are so lucky to have you looking out for them!
That experience with letting a friend feed one twin would have never crossed my mind as a possible "no no". And maybe for most happy, healthy babies that have never suffered loss, it isn't the slightest problem. But it touches my heart to hear how she responded. I am so happy our "little ones" are so resilient! I know the love and strength you two share with them will remove it from her memory 100%!
Biggest hugs and kisses for Squish and Squirt from me! <3
Thanks for the encouragement @opti-mrs! <3