I don't believe jennamarbles is someone who believes in force at all. Her passion is admirable but led to her overlooking how aspects of her message might come across. To her credit she's apologized and seems anxious to make sure the purpose of her idea is not lost....to help others. Steemers helping others.
I totally understand why some would want to give in private or anonymously, i generally fall into this category. I also think it's fantastic to proclaim giving widely. It should be an individual choice in each case. There is a generosity of spirit in the world that is just waiting to find purchase, to be unleashed. Steem's design makes it possible for Steemers to be the spark!
Best of luck jennamarbles, you are awesome. Good luck!
Some of us like to remain in the shadows, but there's another side of giving openly. It reminds others to do good - which is perfectly fine. Just plain old misunderstanding. Words are easily misconstrued after all..
Anyway - keep up the spirit @jennamarbles!
Here's a funny video that relates to this situation :)