One more thing, and this is essential, so I can't wait:
" this is about you and #higherorderthinking, right?"
No, Tigrilla, it's not! (Nice try though...speaking of being tricky...if this is a test I just realized that I don't want to wait while you wonder)
It's about us. You and me. And since it's public it might become about us and other people!
(Speaking of long-term intimate relating, I was with my first girlfriend and wife for fourteen years, 1 daughter, now living in West Hollywood with her husband; and Michelle and I are celebrating thirty-two years together this month.)
For me, no relating is about me; it's always about Us. The We. Both of us harmonizing.
Like a musical duet, it's not just about the song and the music. It's about cooperation, support and caring for what the other one needs. #higherorderthinking is the song we're working to harmonize on.
Is that helpful? ;-)
So, what do We think about that? (your turn!)
I'll be back in a few hours. Patience and Trust are ruling my day.