Hm, it sounds like you're worried about IPFS because it doesn't meet your needs. I'm curious what needs exactly aren't met by IPFS and decentralisation. Do you mind clarifying what your needs are from this list? (link below) I'm guessing it doesn't meet your need for peace/harmony. Does that sound right?
I'm curious! (so I can address the needs directly with others who share same sentiment/worry). Here's the needs list: