That's the system. If you know what to do it's easy, but you have to be aware to hear the same as you said from many people every day.
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That's the system. If you know what to do it's easy, but you have to be aware to hear the same as you said from many people every day.
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I wonder what that does to his sub-conscience?
To know that he is regarded by many to be a lazy rip off.
Surely he cannot have much pride, or maybe he has deteriorated to such an extent that he doesn't care about the honor of his name anymore.
I presume that he is also not a friend of yours?
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Oh no, he's no friend. I wouldn't give such people any money.
They'd get free food and living, but no alcohol and no cigarettes and such.
I think he wanted to find work in the first months of unemployment, but then he got used of it and has realized that he can have an easy life that way. His girlfriend or now his wife works by the way 😉
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We have the same problem here my friend.
A few attempts to find jobs at the beginning and after a year or two, they don't want to work anymore.
It is a type of surrender and the problems then begin in the idle time that they have.
Over here we call that man's girlfriend a "sugar mommy" as she gets him all that he wants.
It is normally a very unequal relationship and in case of an argument the woman is the boss.
I can't talk for all, but such is the experiences that we have had in the charity field.
We supported a lady that had an adult son that was very lazy and he sat around with his bad friends every day. The mom worked, but she said that she didn't earn enough and her son was a burden as he didn't work.
Well, I spoke to the son and we upskilled him in basic computer literacy. He left with a certificate and promised that he would find a job. Sadly not to be as the next day he was back with his mates,
Then the lady changed her weekly list of food requirements that we supplied and all of a sudden she wanted lipstick and cigarettes.
So we stopped supplying her.
During this time we supported her from our own small salaries and we realised that it was all a con. She wanted us to prop up her son.
Such is life my friend.
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As said, he is not my friend and I don't know his wife very well, but the rest of the family is nice and they all work well. "Sugar mommy" sounds nice and she certainly supports him a lot, because he doesn't get that much from the government to afford his lifestyle.
That's a story for a tv show and I bet you have been quite upset. Such is life, but cheating at non-profit organisations who only help others is nothing I would not just accept that, but I suppose she would ignore every word you say.
Sad, but such is life, as you say.
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Well, it normally ends at one time or another. Maybe she keeps him for company, who knows. But I don't think that she could be very proud of him.
We have many times been cheated my friend, even by the very same people that we feed.
But, I call it all school fees, as for the past 20 years we have picked up a ton of experience. What I have learned is that some people will never change, no matter what you do for them and it is balanced by the ones that do change.
A great feeling is when a guy that came to us barefooted and hopeless, afterwards drive past us in his own old car and he can feed his family. That's what I call change.
Cheers and thanks!
Honestly, I don't care if she's stupid and keeps him or if she shows him where the door is.
Yes, we all learn from our mistakes much more than from the books at school.
It's a good feeling if you can help someone and what you are doing is great. You help people to live.
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