For this blog, let's talk about love as February 14 the Valentine's day that passed by the person and the golden one "TIME", at the end of the moment of thinking wherein it made me contemplate about these questions.
When is the perfect time to say that you found the right one?
How can you be so sure that he/she's the one you've looking for? How can you determine that both of you were destined to have each other?
Love is everything; love is blind, love is forever, family is love and even love is life. It is unexplainable feeling you've got towards someone.
I was scrolling on my Facebook account when I saw this short story that questioned about LOVE and TIME. All of us dreaming or should I say we want a "RIGHT LOVE at the RIGHT TIME". Well no one who doesn't like to have this, right? But what if you got both opposite. Like having a right love on a wrong time or having a right time but wrong way of expressing the love in between. Is LOVE really that questionable? Or the person itself who either give or receive the magical one that called "LOVE".
The story was all about the random question that a student suddenly asked out of nowhere and left the whole class in an argument and made their teacher share a sad and heart breaking story based on her life. But let me just share to you guys the point why I wrote this. The question begin with;
"Ma'am, what would you choose, meeting a right person and love in a wrong time or meeting the wrong person and love in a right time?"
Well who else want this right? Because even putting it in any direction, the only one it will end up was getting HURT. However, one thing got me was how the teacher give her explanation.
"They said, meeting the right person in the wrong time is the worst heartbreak that can ever happened to you. But no one had no idea how painful it is to meet the right person in the right timeline, in the right place and in the right version of reality.
Yeah, everything seems to fall in the right places— it's just that, there's no enough time for the both of you."
"Well, to put it simply, it's more painful to be with the right person but no enough time."
Source: Nany Ramos post on Facebook.
Exactly she got me, it hurt so much to think that you are already prepared and ready to face the circumstances because you believe that love can conquer all as you see that he/she Is the right one you've looking for, however the both of you don't have enough time to express and grow together, that it's just a small borrowed time. You encountered each other but not fated to be with one another.
However on the other day, I saw a short reels video of Moira talking about relationships, and she said
"If both of you doesn't end up together, it's not a failed relationship because the number (1) reason of dating is knowing his/her flaws, and everything about that person. Why did I included this? Because some of my friends when they're in a relationship and if it won't work, they hate the person and even talk bad about them which is bad for the both sides.
We should be thankful of having an opportunity to know that person even in a short period of time. **In life there's no failure, it's just a sign that you haven't yet found the final one and got the right spot for you maybe they were the right one to hurt us for us to raise our standard, for us to know our boundaries or non-negotiable. Maybe they were the right person to leave us for us to determine that we can stand on our own, maybe they were the right person to break us for us to build ourselves better. So we should keep going and be thankful for having them even it they brought us heartaches however, we learn.
"In our life that everything happened are unpredictable and it doesn't give us what we want, yet it give us what we need. In accordance that everything happen for a reason and has its purpose. It is up to us how to live and grow upon it".
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It is such a tragedy to meet the right person but at the wrong time and it feels so painful knowing someone is right for you but both of you do not have enough time to spend together. It´s heartbreaking but life moves on right? We have learnt a lesson already and that should make us appreciate the short moment spent together.
Yes exactly, and if it won't hurt means there's no love in between 'cause love hurts but in the end lesson id always what we got.
Ahhhh, love is really complicated. That is why, I don't do love, charrr, lol. Or more like, I don't want to commit myself to anyone. I don't know love and I have no time to explore it. I Always just go with the flow and I think that is not very healthy, but not bad either. But whatever, love is love. I'll just leave it that way and whatever? Lol.
Well mostly it's the best way for us not to get hurt, going with the flow😁 until such time that you can tell to yourself that"I'm ready" hahaha chrrr. Anyways thank you for dropping.💖
Love is a complicated feeling you feel for other person. We do not know when will that right time and right person. But one thing is for sure, love the person that comes into our life without getting any regret in the end.
And that is why I really should say, "Love is complicated." Though its something magical on the other side, still there are plenty of reasons that can make it consider as a complicated one.
That's why right time is our jackpot 😁 though it's complicated but salute to those who are brave enough to venture. Thank you dropping💖
Truth! They really are courageous ones.
I really love this. Love is a very beautiful thing but the complications of love is what makes it really scary.
Like you said, it's better to wait till you're ready in order to avoid unnecessary heartbreaks🤗
Ohh thank you, indeed! Waiting is the only choice for us to put or organized the things around and for us to be ready because LOVE is the fight where in you can't determine if you win the battle or not, strategy is indeed useless rather than having a pure heart.
<Have a great day😀❣️
I totally agree with you when you say that the most heartbreaking thing is finding the right person at the wrong time.
Such people spend every moment together like it's their last.
True, like the time the you're together, having a plans and goals together then in a moment you are just in a far watching them fulfilling it together. It's not like I'm bitter but it's a possible situation though it has a reason. However life must go on, if ever it will happen to me, I will just take it in a good side though it 🤕😁.
Seeing things from the positive perspective is always best✨