Uplifting Other's with Dignity

Life is a gift. 🙂 We should take our life with outmost respect, love and dignity. We are blessed to witness such wonderful creation made by God. Some of us are beyond blessed being born with a golden spoon that they may not exert more efforts to live up in this life while others are struggling and coping up with this life with so much effort to live on.

I am stating this in my own point of view. I am able to say this because of this particular experience I had unexpectedly last Friday, June 28, 2024. I was doing my household chores in the whole morning i.e. washing our clothes. I was thinking that time to go to church so that I can relax and listen something to feed my soul. Going to church is my top on the list.

There you go. My plan succeed. I was able to attend the 5pm mass riding a V-hire passing through Cebu-Cordova Link Expressway, the tallest and longest bridge of the country so far. The 8.9 kilometer Cebu-Cordova Link Expressway is the first expressway in southern Philippines. It connects Mactan Island through Cordova town to mainland Cebu through the South Road Property. This was based on my research about CCLEX.

CLLEX (Third Bridge of Mactan Island)

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This photo was taken from the video of my cousin as I told her to capture the bridge.
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I was heading to Basilica del Sto. Niño alternatively known as the Minor Basilica of the Holy Child. I noticed many church goers are busy taking pictures in front of the image of the Child Jesus before the Holy Mass starts at 5pm. It happened that at the center of the Basilica I saw "Tatay" an old man with his DSLR camera standing and waiting for people to stop by and took pictures in exchange for 100 pesos for two hard photos. I saw no one stops by to pose and get a picture by him.

Looks and appearances can be deceptive. However, at that time I felt something to do with Tatay. It just a thought that I don't know where it came from. It popped in my mind to take pictures so that Tatay will earn and I will have a picture. I asked Tatay to focus his lense of his camera to me and I took a pose even if I don't like to be photographed most especially I did it solo. That time I felt the urge to do so because I remember that no one wants to be pitied upon of. He gladly moved his lenses and direct me where should I stand. (In my thoughts it was so embarrassing because there are many faithful in this place). I considered it a little extension of help to Tatay without being obvious and perhaps it uplifts his dignity by supporting his craft and by not giving his alms instead. I claimed the lovely pictures after the Holy Mass. Never mind the model and the photo bomber. Why am I blogging this? Is to broadcast what I did? Of course not! I am doing this so that if by chance you will have the opportunity to go to the Minor Basilica of the Holy Child, then perhaps you can grab your own copies also captured by Tatay! I did not captured Tatay for hiding his identity and in the first place I was not able to ask permission from him.

Captured by Tatay photographer

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After the celebrating the Holy Mass while claiming my pictures. I was disheartened because someone was just giving directly money to Tatay without being captured by his lense. Tatay was not asking for alms and some people just do it without thinking that having a hard copy of your image would bring happiness to other person because it xould ve his source of income because of his old age and passion of photography.
I hope we could be more sensitive of other feelings and needs. In short, let's build each other's up and treat other people with equal dignity like your own.

Thank you for reading my blog. I hope you have something to ponder about this writing.

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I agree. Mayaman si tatay, DSLR hawak. 😊

Correct! It could be it was his chosen profession before cellular phones developed.

Yes.. a passion cannot die easily. 😊

You have a good heart, @freshness143. I am hoping that there are more people like you who will genuinely help those people without making any judgments. Thank you for sharing this

You're welcome Ma'am @emminemsss. Let's spread kindness everywhere Ma'am for in spreading it; we obtain peace.

Ah I remembered had the same feeling wherever I go to places where a lot of maniniyot - am I right for the term?

They used to be in demand but what technology did 🥺

I guess you're right for the term @lhes most especially during graduation ceremonies and first communion. We just need to prepare 30-50 pesos per copy.

Hello ma'am, blessed to know someone like you.. happy to c tatay nga nkaearn cia

I hope so Ma'am @kai-ermae. I'm happier when I saw his hundreds earned almost thousands for survival purposes. If you have the time to pray and visit the image of the Holy Child, you may stop by and do the same without being obvious Ma'am. Thank you!

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I agree with you Ma'am @freshness143 Life is a Gift and I am grateful to God and to my parents for my life.

That's amazing Ma'am @diamondinthesky. Being grateful is one of the greatest virtues one could acquire. :)

Hello dear @freshness143 🙋‍♀️

It is a wonderful experience what you have told us, with a deep reflection. That's why we understand the pure feelings for which you bring it to us today. The photo is very nice, and you look happy. That finishes giving us the full picture of what happened that day. 🌟

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That was a kind gesture you expressed to Tatay. He was not doing it for the sake of asking for alms but the joy of helping people own some pictures as memory sake but not everyone would understand that, hence those giving him money instead of enjoying the happiness with him. Thanks for sharing 👍

You're welcome @princessbusayo. Thanks for reading as well. :)

Beautifully written, I like how you are able to see the emotions and connect to people while others do not realise how sensitive others feelings can be. Truly, that is a gift that you possess. Hope he was happy, capturing the photo by his lens.📸

Waoh this is a good one, keep it up as you know all works has rewards from God.

To God be all the Glory! :)

You're since a nice person po and I adore you for that 😊