Curiosity is an integral part of being human. I like to see curiosity as a magnet that pulls us to learn new things. Picture yourself as a tiny metallic object and curiosity as a magnet. Curiosity is loaded with many benefits- it makes us learn, explore, and discover new things. Growing up, I have always been curious about the things around me. I don’t remember much of my childhood, but I'm pretty sure I disturbed my parents with many questions; both necessary and unnecessary that they got tired of me. From a young age, it’s been a part of me to ask questions, seek answers, and understand the world around me. However, my teachers in school killed the burning fire in me. They felt I was doing too much and would always complain whenever I asked questions. So, I had to tame my curiosity. Thankfully, my siblings were there to answer my questions.
Curiosity is one of the things that has driven me to become who I am today- a star in my own world. For as long as I can remember, it has been helping me propel forward, learn new things, and evolve. In 2020, during the pandemic. Just like other countries, my country was on lockdown. Interestingly, I was never bored because I had my cell phone and enough data to satisfy my curiosity. During the lockdown, I read about many things. From the system of government in different countries to Greek mythology, Manga, Manwa, and a whole lot of other things. That was when I made it a habit to check the dictionary whenever I came across a new word. The most beautiful and interesting part is that, although I felt like a nerd at that time, the things I learnt are helping me in my academic life. During the lockdown, I read many Greek stories just for fun. Who knew I'd take a course on Greek myths in my second year? Because I’d explored the world of Greek myth, I easily made an A in the course.
Curiosity is not inherently dangerous. In fact, it is one of the important ingredients for personal growth. How do you want to succeed in your field if you're not curious to know the things around you? Ask yourself these questions; How will I succeed in my field? Are there others who have succeeded in doing the exact things I'm doing? What challenges did they face and how do I overcome them? By seeking answers to these questions, you'll gain knowledge and skills.
However, curiosity can become a double-edged sword. It becomes disadvantageous when it is excessive. That is what I call positive curiosity and obsessive curiosity. As much as I'm always curious to learn new things, I know where to draw the line. One phrase that resonates with me is: “Some things are better left unknown.” Indeed, instead of seeking answers to certain questions, they are better left unattended. In certain contexts and situations, I like to mind my business and keep my questions to myself.
Looking back, I remember an incident that happened during my high school years. I had just returned from boarding school. On my first day back, my mom always made sure to treat me well by preparing my favorite food. My brother and sisters were in school, so it was just my mom, dad, and I in the house. We were eating when we suddenly heard a couple fighting and yelling at the top of their voices. It was about 7 pm, and everywhere was dark, but the moon still shone some light on us. The couple's house was right next to ours, so we could hear all the commotion. Suddenly, they took the fight outside, and it became so intense that the neighbors had to come and settle the fight.
Suddenly, my dad stood up, left the food he was eating, and opened the door. After my mom and I warned him repeatedly not to go, he still went. He was just too curious to know what was going on. My mom and I continued eating, and we could still hear that the fight was intense. Out of the blue, my dad flung the door open and rushed inside. We could see blood dripping from his head. Apparently, the husband had tried to hit his wife with a plank, but it accidentally hit my dad's head instead. My mom and I couldn't stop laughing, since we had warned him not to go. Also, my dad has a low pain threshold, and when my mom was treating the wound with iodine and cotton wool, he was literally screaming – I couldn't contain my laughter. He was unable to eat his food and went to bed with a bandaged head. Lesson learnt! Some things are better left unknown. Learn to tame your curiosity.
Curiosity is a double-edged sword. It is up to you to learn how to use it positively. Learn to avoid certain situations when the need arises.
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What you said ooo!
Curiosity kills the cat, it is said.
Indeed, curiousity kills the cat (and probably other animals.😂)
This also resonates with me because there are just some things that you shouldn't just bother knowing or finding out because they can actually affect you. Some people have tried different things out of curiosity and ir affected them badly beyond limit.
Hey there, Juwon. Sometimes, instead of making efforts to find answers, if is better to leave things the way they are.
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Like you said, curiosity pushes us to explore, learn and grow in so many ways that helps us later in life. Sometimes, I wonder how some people survive without being curious about things. Yes, there is a point when you have to know and accept that some things are better left unknown than working tirelessly to find out something that will probably make your life miserable.
In the case of your dad, it reminds me of my dad too but somehow, that man has always been lucky not to get into any trouble but then, my dad can be really curious when things are going on around him especially in the compound. Funny enough, he will always ask us not to come out but he will go there to see what’s happening.
I only like a curious person when he or she is curious about things that will improve their lives in a positive way and also help then gain more knowledge about things that will help them be a better person. I know of some people that I can get anything I want from them because of how curious they are about things that doesn’t concern them. Those are people we call them busybodies aka aproko.
I won’t lie, I laughed while reading what happened to your dad. I’m very sure that henceforth he would always make sure to mind his business except he is called to intervene.
Sweet comment!
I'm glad you agree with me that curiosity pushes us to make the most out of ourselves. I also like people who are curious to learn new things. Like, you are eager to know things around you. That's just beautiful!
Hehe. Seems my dad and yours are 5 and 6. I recorded the whole thing- when my mom was “patching up” his head.😂 Luckily, I made the videos on Snapchat, so as long as I still remember my login details, they are save there. Maybe one day I’ll show you.😂😂
Yes, babes. As long as your curiosity is one that pushes you to learn, then I like you, hehe.
Eii! 😂😂
I look forward to looking at it one day. 🤣
haha mama and son why an
I agree with you, some things are better left unknown, I have also gotten my phone damaged in a bid to settle couple quarell
Hehe. It was just too funny.😂