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RE: Self-Conscious: Why I feel...Why I do?

in Emotions & Feelings6 months ago

Very easy to raise an impenetrable wall of fire around ourselves and convince ourselves that we have no one but us.

I think we have a couple of things in common.I tell myself after God, the only person I have is Me. This is because it's only God and myself who knows who I am, others may try to guess due to my relationship and interaction with them.
Multiple times, I've been told that I built a wall around which makes it a bit difficult for people to penetrate and I'll always reply that it's only the strong hearted that can pass dare. I tell you, I'm very choosy when it comes to making friends or allowing people into my world, because I wouldn't want just anyone to come in and mess it up.

Very easy to fall into the mindset that says, 'I can do it alone'. I am just beginning to realize that I cannot do it alone. No matter how dark the truth seems to me, I need people.

No man is an island so they say, we all need people at one point in our lives. But the people should be those who will help lift us up and not the other way round.
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I think we all tell ourselves that we can do it alone. Many of us as people don't let people too close. I'm friendly with everyone but I'm also very hard to get to. So I understand your point. And yes, people should be adding value, not taking it away. Thank you for your comment ❤️🥂

Yes we all claim to be in control of things when in actual fact we have no inkling of what to do, hehehe.