When I was a child, I had done a lot of things. One of the things I did was always be curious about things and find out the truth. On the other hand, I made mistakes as a child.I could remember there was a couple back then, and there was this aunt; she's our neighbor, and she did suspect her husband most of the time of cheating with another lady.
She asked me if I knew what to do, that she needed to have access to her phone by all means, and sincerely, I was so versed back then. I don't want to tell her what to do, but she emotionally blackmailed me, so I told her what to do. Funny enough, she caught her husband cheating through messages and so on. She got angry and fought her husband; the fight wasn't as small as I thought, as a child that doesn't really know what's happening. As time goes on, I later realized I did something really bad.
After a couple of times, they got back together, but the trust wasn't there anymore. Being curious is not really bad because sometimes it helps, but then there are more disadvantages to being curious than the bad.My elder sister once told me she's suspecting her husband of cheating. All I said was okay; I dare not help her to know if the husband is cheating or not. Sometimes it is good not to know some things for the sake of peace.
Before I can dig into something, it would probably be that it's harmful to me.As time went on, my sister caught her husband on the phone and saw a message that disturbed her. She got angry and fought her husband. When she called me, my sister was shaking and very angry. All I said was, I told you not to dig into finding what is not lost. Now you found out, and now you don't have peace of mind.The bad that has been curious has done more to people's lives than the good.
We all should agree that no one is perfect, and sometimes your spouse will make a mistake; finding a way to know everything about them will put you in trouble, and also him.
There are lots of marriages that are broken today because of this curiosity; the question is, is there any marriage with no problem?The moment you started spying on someone, it made you another thing entirely, because firstly, you will never rest or have peace of mind just because you are looking for something you did not lose.
Should I talk about how my friend lost a six-year relationship? It happens that this guy has always been suspecting her lady, not knowing that this lady is chatting with another man based on the fact that she wants to surprise her man. The man read some part of the messages where they talk about love and the likes. Then he took it upon himself and beat the lady.Not until he found out that he wanted to actually surprise him with something nice. To cut the long story short, the relationship got screwed up. And they both went separate ways.
In summary, I used to be like that, always wanting to find the truth about something. But then I'm not a detective, and it has always done me more bad than good, emotionally down, physically, and mentally down. It's not bad to be curious about something, but just don't poke your nose in people's lives.
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A broken relationship is better than contracting incurable diseases because of our partner's infidelity... so being curious and getting to know the truth is necessary.
I totally agree with you 💯
Men are always causing women sorrows by cheating and going across relationship boundaries, why?
what do you guys want from the women folk for complete peace and trust to rule in relationships and even in marriages.??
Can you imagine, these two stories of yours boarder on already married men and how they threat their own wives, haabaa,
it's so painful. You guys please consider our mental health naah
I agreed with some of your point, but women also goes a long way in cheating and doing what they should not be doing. Let just hope for the best. And pray for good spouses.
Okay