Don't Play With People's Emotions

in Emotions & Feelings3 years ago (edited)

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I went to make my hair today, I didn't see my favorite hairstylist when I asked about her, her madam said

"Them give her breakfast and she went to church to cry for one week now".
(They broke her heart)

Everyone busted into laughter, I didn't understand, I asked again and I was told that her boyfriend of 7years got married to someone else without telling her.

The day she found out was from the boyfriend himself. After one month of ghosting her, he showed up at her house one night, they spent the night today, had sex and even another sex in the morning, it was when he was about leaving that he told her he is married and the woman already heavily pregnant in another state.

That she couldn't bear the shock and she ran to church, she has been in the church for a week now.

When everyone laughed, I couldn't help but imagine the magnitude of trauma and shock she was facing.

I remember when my relationship of 1 year ended, I cried for days, o didn't have appetit to eat, I ghosted everyone for weeks. within days my blood pressure rised. Honestly heart break is not what I wish anyone.

it's really sad that we fall in love with people who is ready to satisfy themselves at the expense of our feelings.

it's sad that we keep falling for people who wouldn't consider our emotions before taking any decision...

My darling, some situations require audacious approach. Go and meet God so you can talk!!

It's a type of faith that only few people understand. It is when you finish with God that you will start looking for human therapist.

When situation got tough, Hannah went to God by herself.

There is a kind of peace you are looking for that 1m professional mental therapists can't give...God alone can give you his peace that settles all things.

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It's the part where he still slept with her before telling her that got to me. Also, it's quite insensitive to laugh at someone's misfortune like that. Yet, I feel she would have spared herself all this trouble if she'd been vigilant

We can't really be careful enough when it comes to matters of the heart.

What a sad situation this person is in 😔 He really is a very bad man who does this. Anyone who does it is ☹️

It is so, only God can give us a peace that is beyond comprehension 🙏 ✨ @onyi1202

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