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Having people in one's life goes a long way in shaping such life. No wonder there's a popular saying that says, " human are human clothes." What this means to me is that, human are so important to each other most especially when it comes to helping each other against shame and all other negativity.
So, when there's people in one's life like I said before, it really makes life more meaningful and well lived.
One thing I have seen and discovered so far is that, most of the people that are doing good in life are being helped or assisted by their fellow human who might be their father, mother, siblings, friends or any other person sent by God to be an angel and helper of destiny to such a person.
All these kind of destiny helpers have been for long, right from the good old days even in the scripture. In the scripture, we saw how the chief butler helped Joseph and also, David the king was also helped in one way or the other. So, without going too far and to cut the long story short, people are very important in one's life, most especially when it comes to the fulfillment of destiny.
But one thing I want us all to know is that, when it comes to this matter, we should not look down on anybody as no one knows who God has destined to be his or her helper. And the problem is that once we are not sensitive to whom our helper is, missing such fellow is inevitable. Even if we know them, we must be ready to always wish them well and pray for them to live long in good and sound health.
All my above introductions have to do with my past and recent experiences. It all happened that my mum was my support pillar. In those days, while I was growing up, my mum used to be there for me come rain, come shine, but then I used to see it as a normal thing which was not, in fact, I can call her my guiding angel and the helper of my destiny with all she did for me. She promised me that she would see me through the journey of my life and that I should not worry about anything but just to concentrate and stay focus on whatever I wish to do.
Then, I didn't recognized her effort on most of the things she's doing for me. I thought it's a normal thing for her to do. I thought it's her responsibility being my mother forgetting that there's mothers out there who are not after the success of their children but to go social and neglect the welfare of their wards.
I could remember one encounter my mum had with my then school principal. Then I was sent home for not being able to pay my school fee and in the process, my mum went to beg on my behalf and she promised to pay as soon as she collect her salary, when the principal heard this, he was surprised and moved and he allowed me in the school and since then, he has never sent me home for late fee payment and this is because he knows that I will always pay no matter how late.
But before my mum left that day, he said, madam I have not seen a serious woman as you, a woman who's ready to see his ward through the journey of life without banking on the husband alone. He said, you're just a wonder. My mum replied him that, there's nothing bad in helping one's husband,.afterall we both brought this boy to this world.
So, this single encounter and others really gave me an insight on whom my mum was to me, but guess what? I didn't still take and recognize her as my destiny helper or my guiding angel until I lost her to the cold hand of death.
It's when I lost her to the cold hand of death that I realized that she's my destiny helper and my guiding angel. It's then I realized she's not just a mother to me, but my support pillar. No wonder there's a popular saying in my local language that says, it's when we die that we become statue." This simple assertion speaks volume.
So, after her death, things were not really as it used to be, as life was full of struggles and hustles to me. Things that I used to get on a platter of gold then, I now be get in strive and struggle, to be candid, life really happened to me after her demise.
So, it's then I now realized her contribution to my life. It's then I realized she's more than a mother to me. It's then I realized that she's nothing but a helper and guiding angel to me. But is my realization too late? No! It's not as I can now pay tribute to her for the job weldone she did in my life when she's alive.
But, thank God I'm now gaining my balance back. Though, I would have gone far more than where I am today had it not been for her sudden death, but notwithstanding, I'm not where I used to be immediately after her death.
But still, even with the recent developments and breakthroughs in my life, I atimes still wish she's alive to enjoy the fruit of her labour. Not only that, there's still questions that I believe she would been in the best position to answer and that, had it been she's alive, her kind of prayers would have been needed by me. But like I said before, I thank God.
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