I have read and listen to people with influence on the type of people you give entrance into your life and the kind of people we should move with. I used to have a different view about this notion before now, but recently, I watched a video clip of an event where the chairman of Central Bank of Nigeria, Mrs Ibukun Awosika was a speaker.
I paid alot of attention to her speech as she spoke on the kind of people we should allow into our lives. It's no new thing to me that to be successful in all areas of life, be it, academics, career, business, marriage, even spiritual, it all depends on who we move with or those we give access into our lives. There are some certain people we must do life with......
Like an adage says, "show me your friend, and I'd tell you who you are"....
But the question now is, what about those who doesn't fall into these categories?? I mean the category of people of integrity, honesty, loyalty, reliable, encourager, hardworking, dream builder, disciplined, vision, actualizer and so on.
It's simply means, if you don't fall into these categories or train yourself to possess these qualities, no one will wanna do life with you. I urge you to do a reality check on yourself to know why people don't want to employ you, marry you, do business with you, be your friend or even trust their possessions in your care. It could be that there's something you're doing that has kept people away from you and make them avoid you at every given opportunity, If they want to be successful in life.
It's not enough to make research's or read book about people you want to do life with, you must also work on yourself to be that person people want to have in their lives. You must be a value that's always ready to add positively to people's life.
People always want to associate with someone of value. If you don’t have value, what use would you be of.
At the same time, the people and the environment we are have a direct and indirect input to our lives.
Nice article!
I really don't know what use it would be when you don't have a value.. yeah that's right so we have to live to that standard. Thanks for coming around
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It's true...no one enjoys a parasitic relationship or one that's toxic...it's not new that we need each other in other for us to get through life...no one man is an island..life is all about connections and these connections in return affect the way we live our lives.
Everyone wants and appreciate value...so it's left for you and I to build ourselves to be very valuable... everyone always associate with success that's why we need to strive to succeed in ways that others would really want to align with us...but we'll have to be careful though..success brings all kinds of people, so you'll have to choose which ones would had more value to your life and then yall do life together...
Really insightful post ❤️❤️
That's true tho, you have said well friend.. no one can live in this life alone with the help of one or two persons.. thanks for coming through my post I am really delighted..
Wow it worth reading all over again
Yeah it is
What an important point of view you bring us today, my dear @sayofunmi
Asking ourselves these questions can be revealing for us as it will help us to see what we can change in our being in order to get what we want. Something we all should and can do. Thank you! We liked your analysis 🤗🙋🏻♀️
You are welcome I am happy I was able to get you attracted.. enjoy the rest of your day.