There is typically a lot of laughter and joy in a relationship when it first starts, when you go from merely dating as single people to becoming a unit of some form. The romantic phase of a relationship is when both of you are feeling optimistic about the future and finding each other to be a lot of fun.
The feeling of being high, though, tends to fade away as the relationship develops and becomes deeper. At this point, the need to be treated as an individual reappears, and power battles start. It is at this point in every relationship that the enjoyment, the playfulness, and the laughter begin to wane. The spontaneous play and the unexpected bursts of laughter grow less frequent over time. The added sense of security that comes with a stable relationship puts the brakes on the human brain's capacity for fun.
The majority of people believe that since joy, intimacy, and laughter come naturally, they should be left to our lives' natural events. However, this hardly ever works. We have a tendency to take our relationship and our spouse for granted as everyday stress increases, as we get more and more preoccupied with work and other activities. We drift more and farther away from the carefree individuals we once were. Couples must devote their time and attention to it as a result. The solution to this problem requires that they consciously decide to make time for play and fun.
Plan a good time. Although this idea might appear odd, it actually works.
The majority of us are so busy that we rarely have time for enjoyment on a daily basis. Furthermore, why not schedule time for enjoyment if we can schedule time for our friends, kids, and jobs?
Everyone's mental health, regardless of age, benefits from laughter and play. There is little doubt that both mental and physical health are improved in those who laugh more and enjoy themselves. Make it a point to laugh for at least five minutes every day, rolling around on the floor and giggling aloud. Find a way to inject some humor and playfulness into your daily existence together. Additionally, at least once a week, engage in a playful pastime or pleasant leisure activity with your companion. Get out there, do something simple and enjoyable, and go on a date.Try to devote at least half of your free time to romantic activities that you may do together. Both the wellbeing of your relationship and your own mental health depend on you and your partner playing and having fun together.
Your body's natural painkillers, endorphins, are released when you laugh, and they also make you feel good. You can also bond with your lover more deeply through it. Every now and then, take a few days off to enjoy a great getaway. Make an effort to interact with others and provide joy and amusement to your situation. Find an activity that you both like to do but haven't done in a long.
Self-deprecating humor Give yourself a mental shake whenever you catch yourself being too serious about yourself. See the circumstance and the two of you from the perspective of an outsider, and try to find the humor in it. Instead of getting irritated, choose to laugh.
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@Chiomaj- You may consider to upvote.Thanks for your encouragement
people in relationships should always look for ways to re-ignite that initial spark that was during the first stage of the relationship via those activities that both enjoyed doing together so things wouldn't get boring as time passes.
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