In relationship, not all the time both of you are happy, there are ups and downs but those trials were bring you both to be more stronger.
When we talk about love, it’s all about acceptance of who they are. About their appearance, life status, past, and acceptance of who really they are. There are moments where there’s are a part of them that we can’t accept it and for us it’s just a disturbance. Sometimes everything become just a useless to our eyes especially if they are putting some efforts that we cannot see, or even appreciated. There are even times where we are disappointed on the way of how they look, how they wear clothes and how to get along with others. Especially, jealousy.
When we talk about jealousy, it takes a big part to the relationship to handle. We can’t just give reason about that we knew what we will going to do in every case like this. If your ex have someone new with them already, put boundaries. Boundaries is very importance to someone who’s in the relationship or to someone who’s connected with their ex.
Boundaries is a limitation where you put line with the finish line of it that your action will be just there and it will not surpass the line, however, we can’t control our minds thinking about things that cause us to overthink. If you don't like her being jealous, just let her go. It's okay for someone to be jealous, but don't hurt them, and don't hurt someone. We all want someone to love us fairly, and without fail. We want to be loved for sure, without anyone else in their lives. I'm not saying it's bad to be friends with an ex, but if you know that your partner is not comfortable with that kind of thing, avoid it.
Always have a good conversation, if you're both angry, if you're both upset, if you're both not in the mood, spend some time first and talk to each other. It's not right to spend a day, two days before you settle down, because if that's the pride of each of you, there will come a point where love will fall out. There will come a point when someone will be hurt, and there will come a point when someone will choose to break away from the relationship they have.
Everyone can get through a good conversation, talk about it and don't raise each other's pride. And if it ever comes to the point that someone hates the relationship between the two of you, I hope you both choose to fight and move on. I know it's hard, I know it hurts, but sometimes they say 2nd chance is sweeter than the first one. But he depends on whether people will regret it.
There are relationships that are only better when given another chance, that become better and work out more when given the opportunity to show their side and the content of their hearts. But honestly, it's hard to give trust when that person tries to destroy the trust you have. It's not the part that when you break it, it's hard to get it back..but the part that because we love the person, our love for them still comes first.
They said, even the most intelligent people are become stupid when it comes to love since love comes first, but hey I’m not saying that most of them. All of us experienced being blind when we talked about relationship, even me. I experience that years ago, but I’m still a teenage back then so maybe that’s the reason why I’m so serious since she’s the first partner that I’ve ever got.
But here it is, don’t hate her because she’s or he’s a jealous a type of person, instead love him/her more because that person was afraid to lose you. Don’t hate her if she loves wearing sexy clothes, but make her sure that she will only wear it if she’s with you since it’s become dangerous to wear that kind of clothes outside due of the peoples mind.
When two people are always trying their best, at the end everything will be worth it.
Thank you for reading!
You share with us a lot of nice thoughts. I would especially like to emphasize the conversation in any situation. Without open conversation, it is difficult the things to work out. And acceptance is a great step, without it, it's better not to even try to be in that relationship :D
Thanks for your thoughts :)
Agree! Especially if you have trauma from the past where it will makes you remember how bad it is
I agree... sometimes it is not that easy then to start a conversation but it shouldn't be avoided of course.
I broke up with my ex lately. Until now, there's still a pain in my heart every time I remember he cheated. Fck those cheaters. I really got traumatized that until now I can't totally move forward
Whenever there's a topic about her ex it's hurt rin for me :< like, I didn't want to be like this eh. My experience hurt me and we cannot blame ourselves. Since trauma will stay no matter how long it is
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Alam mo we are faulty things kase our brain are wired not to forget even the smallest things. As time pass we just tend to accept na things are meant to be that way kaso di lahat ng tao kaya ng acceptance kaya madaming taong kahit ilang taon na affected pa rin from years ago trauma..
And jealousy is part of any relationship its how you both handle it that matters...