So, what does it really mean to date a woman out of your league or to want a woman out of your league? And if indeed after I tell you what that means, clearly defined, would you still want to go after? Okay? Maybe your heart's being stubborn. You know? Your mind says forget it. Your heart says Go for it. And you're in a dilemma its alright, I'm gonna take you through a couple of things. I've got a couple of pointers, tips. I wouldn't say tricks but definitely tips on how you can land this woman.
So today we're going to talk about how to date a woman who's out of your league or housing. Get a woman who's out of your league. Now when you say a woman is out of your league, what exactly does that mean it let me give you the scenario here and this happens everyday in society, I mean thanks to the unrealistic expectations and standards it sort of puts on all of us you know, whenever you see a guy who's not conventionally good looking, dating this gorgeous woman, first question you ask yourself is how did he get her? Right? Why do you say that? It's because you obviously know that or feel like this woman is out of his league either because he's not physically attractive or there may be other factors that may be coming to play.
Now, whatever your definition of that is, you're almost able to explain almost immediately why you think this person should not be married to the other or dating the other. This guy should not be dating this woman. So really, what does it mean to be out of someone's League? Once again, maybe it's meeting someone who you think is just so perfect. Someone who has most of the attention of men around her and you probably think that the competition for this particular woman is going to be so high. And it's two things that either just sort of tells you to walk away or you actually are even more intrigued by the chase and your quest to get hurt. Well, whatever it is, I'm here to tell you that it is totally possible to date a woman who's out of your league
Number one, improve himself. improve yourself in every aspect of your life physically, mentally, emotionally, now I'm just saying that once you begin to feel intimidated by a woman's achievements, intimidated by her looks, just notice that you can change your circumstance like if you feel like she is more achieved than you are what is it that she has over you that's making you feel intimidated? If you think she's intelligent, go back to school, you know, improve yourself if you think she is good looking. There's so many things you can do to improve the way you look, smell, you know, appearance and all that, you can alter your appearance a little bit and I'm not saying go under the knife, but you know, change your hairstyle, grow a beard, shave off your beard, whatever it is that you think might look a little better.
Number two, have fun in the friendzone whilst you improve yourself, you know, so for women like that, it can get really tiring really fast and they have a really short fuse for men, because men have been hitting on them from the get go and they feel like every other man's intention is to win. Her over. Such women can have really short fuses because they just have had enough of the attention that they do not ask for more than 90% of the time. I would say approach this differently, be comfortable. In the friendzone get to know her hang out. I found out that a lot of guys who end up being friends sometimes end up winning the girl's heart because over time they begin to see them for more than just how they appear and actually begin to consider what they bring to the table which may be so much more than what they physically look like and so have fun. In the friendzone you know get to know her so far she's willing and open and that's a really good place to start.
Number three, build your self confidence and just like I was talking about improving yourself, this is one thing that I believe has to stand alone because building your confidence can do the impossible for you trust me sometimes the difference between you sealing a deal and actually losing it can be just your level of confidence. Confidence has opened more doors for people than money or anything else ever will. And you know there's nothing like a man who's confident and I feel like a lot of men sort of settle for much less because they really have not been able to hone or grow their confidence to a level where they're able to not be intimidated by certain people. You know, confidence is such an attractive trait and the earlier you begin to realize that the better for you.
Number four, show her you're good enough. Now. Let's say you managed to get her attention some way somehow then want what's your plan? You know what, what have you got going for you? You are going to have to work a little bit more to show her that you are actually worth your mettle. Always be a gentleman treating her with respect and honor and you will find out that she will actually reciprocate the gesture. Never show off. Don't be a jerk. You know, be a gentleman around her and let her fall in love with your personality. Don't act desperate for attention. Do not stalk her, become someone she can rely on and not just someone who cracks cheap jokes at other people's expense. She will definitely start noticing you if you make sincere attempts on getting closer or getting to know her.
Number five, show her she's special, like special special, you know, so don't just hang around and turn into an errand boy by that I actually mean like get to know her get to know what she likes. Get to know her a little more intimately get to explore her mind, ask her pertinent questions and see what kind of responses she gives you and then take a cue based on that to do thoughtful things for her you know for instance, if you find out that when she sad she likes to eat ice cream, the next time you're out and you know that she's having a hard day, or if she's in her office and she's having a hard day. You can just send her a little tub of ice cream and I'm sure that she would be grateful it's not because you're a fool, but you're just trying to show her that there is someone who's there for her and you want to be that person to be there for pretty much for the rest of her life.
Six, look past her looks. You're going to have to look past all those things that are making you insecure. Do you think she's just such a gorgeous human being and you are less attractive? Do you think she has more money than you? Do you think she's in a higher social class? In your mind you should be able to block out those things completely for you to begin to have anything meaningful with her because you see if you harbor all these thoughts, you're always going to be hearing that little voice in your head telling you that you are not good enough. You want to silence that voice and just really go out and show her that you are worthy. You are the man that she needs in her life. And before long both of you are going to be walking into the sunset together, look past all the things that intimidate you and my guy you will be surprised at just how far you can go with your love interest.
Well, not much more to say I hope these tips were helpful in some way.
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This post made me remember this song.
It's amazing how we can get what we wanted if we work on our improvements instead of letting those insecurities send us packing right before we win our lovers over.
Great tips, @irene99.