Congrats looks awesome! I'll never have a wedding like that but I also feel the bonkers nature of it all on my part. I've been married all of... 7 months and to me I still think of it as outta this world lol - I'm a loner at heart so I settled long ago to be alone forever but I guess things don't work out the way you plan sometimes!
I do think listening helps
Then you do know the secret to a happy marriage hah. I mean I've only had it 7 months but I'm pretty old and wizened to the world generally. that is the number 1 thing. And for many people way harder than it sounds. I guess you guys were just naturally good at it =)
Cheers to the next 20 years!