wow indeed the starstrings is indeed at work once again, actually i support everything you said in the first 4 paragraphs, i think courtship is very essential before making a decision of getting married and moreover marriage is not cake and sweets that you will expect everything to be sweet at all times, this has made me wonder also why most marriages of nowadays fail over little misunderstandings..
The fact is that they haven't taken and spend enough time to understand each others flaws and correcting it if need be and after marriage it worsen and at the end, a marriage of a year has been settled on 5 different occasions based on every week disagreement..
Marriage is indeed not sth we can rush, it is like cooking beans, while picking it, you need to be careful cox if you pick to fast or randomly you will end up eating stones, same as marriage, if you are in a hurry to get married, you wont have the time to study your partner and after marriage you start finding faults in him/her because you didn't court her/him properly...
courtship is very essential and no matter how long it take during courtship dont rush anything, even if its 5 years courtship, don't mind because you aren't preparing for a temporary commitment but a life long commitment and you need to be cautious...
I really enjoyed this first 4 paragraphs because it tells us how important courtship is before proposing a marriage...
hmmmmmm hot bro, it is indeed a fact for you and your partners to have similar interest and not the opposite lolz, you need to first inquire if these person will be able to contribute positivity into your life before taking things further...
lolz it is indeed a fact that most people marry for the wrong reasons, there was a time my friend was telling me that she needs a guy to date jokingly and i said i will introduce my elder brother to her, the next thing she asked me was does he have money, i laughed and he is okay but now i can't introduce you to him anymore that what is the assurance that you will be committed to him the time he gets broke or sapa choke him, she was now like she is joking..
i didn't introduce her to my brother because of that, money is now most females concentration nowadays, what is love without money is what they will tell you...
i have seen several marriages fail too here and instead of the woman to go away, she refuse and stayed all because she wanted her child to have a father and you endure getting beaten up most times, why didn't you make your research before spreading out and u got pregnant, now she cant leave and everyday is punching and slap...
i think you have observed a huge deal of the marriages of nowadays and they should always marry for the appropraite reasons and not vice versa...
thanks for this and i love this..