The collective opinion of mankind is what determines what "good" appearance is.
Certain jobs raise the pressure as well, like being an insurance broker who deals with real life clients that will surely be judging every aspect of the broker.
Back when futuremind was a bad boy going to court rooms, all the fat lawyers were considered the shitty lawyers, by even their own fellow lawyers, and the fat lawyers seemed affected by this to the point of playing the role of the shitty lawyer. That is some mind bending stuff..
Physical appearance matters as you say, but how it matters to your perception is what is important. It matters because of these obvious points we're addressing, but even if you can recognize that appearance may be negatively affecting aspects of your external existence, it doesn't have to effect your personal opinion of yourself!
If I think someone is judging me on appearance, then I think they are either jealous because I'm so sexy, or they are just shallow and think in terms of what is on the outside and not the person-ality that are dealing with.
I think you do not look fat, but maybe my idea of overweight--->fat--->obese is different than the perception of how others view excess weight.
A good sexercise regiment is all the body needs as long as you put your back into it ;)
Nice post bro.
Thanks buddy! Thank you for taking the time to translate this post 🤣 the pictures is, after I lost 20 pounds for the past 2 months.