The society we are in today have placed to much emphasis on the Age factor and this has misled lots of people even leading to depression and other unimaginable things. The real truth is not everybody will achieve certain things at the so called "society set age" because we all have different timing and purpose to fulfil.
Age is not a big deal. So no pressure whatsoever
Back to the questions:
Can you date someone older than you as a man, Likewise, can you date someone younger than you as a lady?
Well, my Ex is 2 years older than me and we dated for almost 2 years with no issues regarding the Age factor. It boils down to maturity, understanding of purpose, respect for each other among others.
Maturity is not by Age.
Do you think of age as a priority in living life?
What age are for certain things in life (marriage, school e.tc)?
So, for both questions...
Hmmmm it is depending on situations. For instance, when it comes to achieving goals and one's desire, age should not be a priority because I believe that the time anyone choose to sit up and chase realistic goals, it is still achievable.
We have heard stories of old people going back to school and taking major u-turns in life.
Though when it comes to certain things life itself has placed age limits on, age at this point can become a priority but not a burden to cause worry.
For example, a woman who wants to give birth to her own children definitely knows she must have them before her menopause age. She can't wake up at age 90 hoping to have a child unless she is Sarah.
if the guy is still in the university and you are done with school, can you wait for the guy if he seems serious?..
Lol😂😂 why not? If you are truly sure he is serious and that's who you want. I don't see a big deal here.
While waiting you can get busy upgrading yourself and building your future together by making plans. Don't fold your arms, do something to grow and explore too.
Chai...make una no vex for me I Don type one post for here🤣🤣 make I go drink milk for energy.
Awww Ex... i wonder why it ended🥺
I don’t think 1-5 years gap on both sides matter or is even spoken of, its age gap that blows trumpet or alarm that people carry on their head...
Some beautiful things are sometimes not meant to last long I guess...but make I no lie her wahala plenty😂😂
Abi oo...age is not written on the head so I don't even understand the fuss about it.
I know of a couple (my high school classmate's parent) that the wife is 10 years older than her husband and they are still happily married with grown up kids... When their son told me ehn, I fess weak but it made me understand clearly that the Age thing we carry for head doesn't really count at the end.
Bro...
Its hard for a naija babe to date u when u still dey school ooo...
Remember that ladies are like flowers and them get expiry date
Lol...its the flowers for me
There are Naija babes who will wait and even enjoy the waiting period if you are worth it.
How many years person go use finish school?
The truth is we put unnecessary pressure on ourselves for no reason. As for me ehn, I no send oo and I just dey one corner dey sip my alcohol and enjoy my timing with no stress and pressure.
My brother we gat get d bag o
Its necessary
Crazy part is that you might date someone older than you with 10 years and they will give you hell, just imagine your own situation; some girls will never date a younger guy.
Exactly...Age in no way says the man or the woman is matured enough to even handle situations.
Every thing na mindset my dear. If you want it to work, it will.
Indeed oh, it's all the mind, people who use age aren't ready.
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