In this matter of relationship, I remember stating that the deal breaker for me is when the lady isn't making efforts for growth, or is satisfied being in one position for a long time.
If I see you ain't making efforts to grow, it means you are nothing short of a liability.
Secondly about Long distance relationship.
I will always say every relationship should be a ship with a destination. This means that so long both partners love each other and have a goal for their relationship, distance wouldn't be a barrier.
I think distance in a relationship is also a thing of the mind, your partner can always be with you physically yet far from you emotionally and otherwise. And your partner maybe far from you physically yet you both feel as though you are always together physically.
Communication I would say is the vital part of any relationship. True distance is not in the place but in the communication. How well you communicate with your partner determine how close you two are.
I have a friend who's partner (girlfriend) always comes visiting, at a point, he told her to reduce the way she visits him to once or twice a week. He told her this because even when she comes, they hardly talk. Most times he comes to my house when she's around because of how quiet the house is when she's around.
Me on the other hand think it will be great if my partner always come visiting, but then she's always traveling for work, but our communication is on a very high level.
My advice is that you shouldn't be in a relationship that lacks communication, else you will easily get fed up. And again every relationship should have a goal, with both partners striving to achieve the goal.
Here's is my link to Leothreads
Una sha wan kill us with sense. Hehe.
I agree sha. Communication na e b the koko. No be to de look unasef like teddy bear. That one de off.
Change de constant. Pikin wey talk say e no go change go sidown for ground wen bed de
You can say that again.... But no be say I too get sense ooo, just dat na how e be I dey talk my own fa
Hehe. E beta jare my guy. Mesef no get sense