I loved my father, he was a bit hard to love though, he wasn't a bad father at all, but the way I see it he was too hard on us(my brother and I) and my mother too, poor woman my lovely mother, she loved him so much but was much afraid of him as well. Can't say his were the wrong reasons to be demanding, at least with us(again my brother and I) but I guess there's a very thin line between being demanding or strictly sticked to his mind codes or the ones he learned who knows how from his father in a whole different time and circumstances and being somehow verbal abusive or violent with your sons as if they were soldiers to be disciplined and led by the best path according to your thoughts or/and beliefs.
Yo amaba a mi padre, aunque era un poco difícil amarlo, no era un mal padre en absoluto, pero tal como yo lo veo, era demasiado duro con nosotros (mi hermano y yo) y con mi madre también, pobre mujer, mi adorable madre, ella lo amaba tanto pero también le tenía mucho miedo. No puedo decir que sus razones para ser exigente no fueran las correctas, al menos con nosotros (de nuevo mi hermano y yo), pero supongo que hay una línea muy delgada entre ser exigente o ceñirse estrictamente a sus códigos o a los que aprendió quién sabe cómo de su padre en una época y circunstancias completamente diferentes, y ser de alguna manera verbalmente abusivo o violento con tus hijos como si fueran soldados a los que hay que disciplinar y guiar por el mejor camino según tus pensamientos o creencias.
I believe teaching your sons is right, but always being clear that they are gonna be them and will follow from your teaching their own codes and beliefs, they are gonna have their own priorities and dreams that haven't to be your own, so you gotta let them live their stages in life according to what's right, not just for you, but what's really right. A kid should be taught to know and experience what's hard work and why it's necessary but without violating his kid personal life fucken stage for God's sake, sorry, got excited, well, my father was a bit too much like that. Love expressions, hugs, father and son talks, time spending and stuff like that weren't there, never ever, just hard-deep-inching-scolding censorship looks or loudy attention calls when a rule of his working-man-adjusted to kids fucken code was broken by us.
But he was harder on me, my brother tried so hard to be like him and follow his ridiculous and exaggerated code , not me, I learned the stuff he taught us, I was no lazy boy, I worked hard when it was certainly and really requires, but wanted to live my stage too and do stuff like other boys of my age.
Creo que educar a tus hijos esta bien, pero siempre teniendo claro que ellos van a ser ellos mismos y que seguirán sus propios códigos y creencias, que van a tener sus propias prioridades y sueños que no tienen por qué ser los tuyos, así que tienes que dejarles vivir sus etapas de la vida según lo que es correcto, no sólo para ti, sino lo que es realmente correcto. A un niño se le debe enseñar a saber y experimentar lo que es trabajar duro y por qué es necesario, pero sin violar su jodida etapa de vida personal de niño, por amor de Dios, perdón, me emocioné, bueno, mi padre era un poco demasiado así. Las expresiones de amor, los abrazos, las charlas padre e hijo, el tiempo dedicado y cosas así no estaban ahí, nunca, nunca, sólo miradas duras, profundas, de censura y regaños o fuertes llamadas de atención cuando rompíamos una regla de su maldito código de hombre trabajador adaptado a los niños. Pero él fue más duro conmigo, mi hermano se esforzó tanto en ser como él y seguir su código ridículo y exagerado, yo no, yo aprendí las cosas que él nos enseñó, yo no era un niño perezoso, trabajé duro cuando ciertamente y realmente lo requería, pero quería vivir mi etapa también y hacer cosas como otros niños de mi edad.
I won't keep digging in this matter down. There was a time, I was older enough, university graduated, already working and earning my money, I faced him one or twice standing by my opinions over his which I kept finding insane in some moments, the last time he stopped talking to me for a while. When he got sick for kidney failure and had to start alternate days going at the hospital to do hemodialysis, my brother was on a mission and it was I who was with him all the time, leaving the house at dawn and returning at midnight, for reasons that I will not explain because the story would get longer. Shortly after, he began to talk to me, that's how we stayed for more than 6 months, until one day, when leaving a hemodialysis, he suffered a stroke and died in less than 24 hours. I know that he regretted many things that he did not do well with me, I saw him in his gaze that was no longer hard, he did not need to say anything, I knew it, I loved him and that's why I was there for him until the end, and that,... that is...
No voy a seguir ahondando en este asunto. Hubo una vez, ya bastante mayor, ya graduado de la universidad, ya trabajando y ganando mi dinero, que lo enfrenté una o dos veces defendiendo mis opiniones sobre las suyas, que me seguían pareciendo descabelladas en algunos momentos, la última vez dejó de hablarme por un tiempo. Cuando enfermó de insuficiencia renal y tuvo que empezar a ir días alternos al hospital para hacerse hemodiálisis, mi hermano estaba en una misión y era yo quien estaba con él todo el tiempo, saliendo de casa al amanecer y regresando a la medianoche, por razones que no explicaré porque la historia se alargaría. Al poco tiempo empezó a hablarme, así estuvimos más de 6 meses, hasta que un día, al salir de una hemodiálisis, sufrió un derrame cerebral y murió en menos de 24 horas.Sé que se arrepintió de muchas cosas que no hizo bien conmigo, lo vi en su mirada que ya no era dura, no necesitaba decir nada, lo sabía, lo amaba y por eso estuve ahí para él hasta el final, y esa,... esa es...
My Truth/Mi verdad.
HASTA LA PRÓXIMA./ UNTIL NEXT TIME
I must clarify that audio in this video was no edited in any way, it was recorded directly from the cellphone in a quite big classroom of a school that my wife uses for her job rehearsals, the soun in that room echoes in the way it's listened. Debo aclarar que el audio de este video no fue editado de ninguna manera, fue grabado directamente desde el celular en un aula bastante grande de una escuela que mi esposa usa para sus ensayos, el sonido en esa sala hace eco en la forma en que se escucha. Texto traducido al ingles con DeepL App/ Text traslated to english with DeepL App
I do apologize for some edition cuts in the video, I had only one chance to record and made some mistakes that had to be removed
Pido disculpas por algunos cortes de edición en el video, solo tuve una oportunidad de grabar y cometí algunos errores que debí eliminar
Ediciónde video/Video edition: Inshot App con los recursos disponibles en su versión libre/with the avaliable resources in free version
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This is so lovely, I love and admire your vocal and the way you presented your song.
Weldon sir
Thank you veru much, it means a lot to me, sorry for response the delay, we had no electricity here and I couldn't had the chance to see the comments due to lack of data connection.
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Barbaro amigo hermoso mensaje que nos transmites, el cover te quedó espectacular, síguele metiendo ganas, que la estamos rompiendo como quien dice 😎, muchas felicidades 🎙️🎧
Muchas gracias hermano, esa canción me gusta mucho y me identifiqué con ella desde que la escuché por primera vez, por eso quise hacerlo en solo, para poder darle mi forma y sentirla a mi manera. Gracias por llegarte al rincón y apreciar mi esfuerzo.Saludos.
Wow man, what a great video. I notice the effort you made to share good work for the community regarding editing, but the best thing here is your powerful voice. Very nice to hear from you, thanks for being here.
Oh thank you very much man, I did put effort in the post cause it meant more than a post to me, that song is a mirror in which I looked in the minute I listened to it and the topic of the week gave me the opportunity to share my experience and my feelings through out my attempt of singing that great and beautiful song.
I must apologize for taking too long to respond your comment, it was out of my reach doing it, we had no electricity here and when that happens data connecting is imposible. But I'm here now,I moved to this spot of the city next to the signal tower where I hoped I could get in and I just did.
This is a park called Independence. So this park allowed me to say thank you for appreciating, I'm glad you liked it. Have a good day.!!!
O My God, your voice is heavenly man
Even without instrumental but this is fascinating to listen to. Weldone my friend. I love this
Wow!!! What a nice surprise, this comment made to a real singer would be so nice to hear, imagine what it is to hear it for me that I'm no singer at all and just made a hige effort to sing it as good as I could, that's why I did it without any soundtrack, to put my feelings on it and express what it means to me.
I must apologize though, for taking too long to respond to such a nice comment, the lack of data connection because of the long absence of electricity here just kept me from being able to get here sooner, but I could do it now in a spot of the city that allows it no matter the electricity. So, thank you very much again,I'm so glad you liked it. Happy day!!!!
There is no problem at all friend
You are very much welcome
💚💚💚Thanks friend.
Lovely voice man, you did great singing this in acapella . Well done 👏.
Thank you very much, did the best I could as I'm no singer, it's good to hear you like my voice, I really appreciate that. 💚💚💚
You did good man!...keep singing.
Thanks man. I will, I will keep singing and learning how to...
Amigo muy bonito tema. Bendiciones para ti.
Muchas gracias. Bendiciones para ti también. Saludos.