Reflections and Personal Life: Families and friendships that become family/Reflexiones y Vida personal: Las familias y las amistades que se convierten en familia

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My best friend, my mother, the one who took care of me and protected me from her womb, the one who saw me born and hardly slept to take care of me and watch over my dreams as long as I was okay for being premature. One of my best friends and the first one I call in everything, my father, the one who cried when he saw me very similar to my grandmother and the first one who called me his princess, the one who has always trusted in all the goals I have set for myself; in every step I take in my life. My older brother, my second best friend whom I admire for his great mathematical teaching, while I said they were boring, he was in love with numbers, until one day he told me: I will make it easy for you in mathematics and you will like it and so it was. Nowadays I stand out in numbers and sometimes I tell myself nothing is impossible.

I have great admiration for people who offer sincere friendship without any kind of interest. I admire that friendship that with great spirituality and humanity like that of Richard Rojas and Leida Vargas who highlight their passion in art and that you admire and who also end up admiring you and when they come into your life and stay, then something happens: Their friends also end up being mine and mine are theirs as happened with Willian Suarez and Aleida Martinez, a friendship that remains with you through good and bad times.

Those people who are family and who surprise you with their support and courtesy, those who They share the same culture or ideology or some thoughts or in other cases they do not share any of the above but there is respect and good communication. Those friendships that identify as a great brotherhood while being family, without being it. That Friendship that lasts even if it is not your father or mother or aunt or blood siblings, but they still come together in a great bond of compatibility of characters and human sensibilities just as happened with Giuseppe Fischetti, my boss, whom my daughter calls grandfather.

That true friendship where it's not just friends who are there to party. It is the one that advises you to believe and encourages you to grow personally, family or work, it is the one that when found among large crowds is preserved for a lifetime. That friendship that has no obstacle, rather they always support each other and do not criticize or judge each other anymore. How well they smile and cry together that fills you with joy and happiness, it is that family that before being family are friends and those friends or childhood friends who before being friends are family.

From my childhood, my adolescence and my adult life; that friendship that over the years manages to break one and thousands of obstacles, friendship where we even achieve objectives and goals together, friendship where there is complicity and alliances in the journey of life. The friendship is so deep that we even end up becoming compadres or comadres. Those friends who treat your daughter as if she were their own or that great brotherhood where they value your parents as their own and even help you take care of them, like a great treasure.

I thank God for giving me the family I have and the friends who end up being my siblings and family. Thank God for continuing to allow those great friendships to still be preserved and to continue growing in every project of my life.

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Mi mejor, amiga mi madre la que desde su vientre me cuido y protegió, la que me vió nacer y casi no durmió por cuidarme y velar mis sueños con tal que yo estuviera bien por ser prematura. Uno de mis mejores amigos y el primero al que llamo en todo, mi padre, el que lloró al verme muy parecida a mi abuela y el primero que me llamó su princesa, el que siempre ha confiado en todas las metas que me he trazado; en cada paso que doy en mi vida. Mi hermano mayor, mi segundo mejor amigo al que admiro por su gran enseñanza matemática, mientras yo decía que eran aburridas, él enamorado de los números, hasta que un día me dijo: Te lo haré fácil en matemática y te gustará y así fue. Hoy en día me destaco en los números y algunas veces me digo no hay nada imposible.

Siento gran admiración por las personas que brindan una amistad sincera sin algún tipo de interés alguno. Admiro esa amistad que con gran espiritualidad y humanidad como la de Richard Rojas y Leida Vargas que destacan su pasión en el arte y que admiras y que también terminan admirándote y cuando llegan a tu vida y se quedan, entonces ocurre algo: Sus amigos terminan también siendo míos y los míos de ellos como ocurrió con Willian Suarez y Aleida Martinez, amistad que se mantienen junto a ti en buenas y malas.

Esas personas que son familia y que sorprenden con su apoyo y cortesía, esas que comparten una misma cultura o ideología u algunos pensamientos o en otros casos no comparten ninguna de las anteriores pero existe el respeto y una buena comunicación. Esas amistades que se identifican como una gran hermandad siendo familia, sin serlo. Esa Amistad que perdura aunque no sea tu padre o tu madre o tía o hermanos de sangre, pero igual se unen en un gran vínculo de compatibilidad de caracteres y sensibilidades humanas así como ocurrió con Giuseppe Fischetti, mi jefe, al que mi niña llama abuelo.

Esa amistad verdadera donde no solo son los amigos que están para rumbear. Es aquella que te aconseja a creer y te anima a crecer en lo personal, familiar o laboral, es esa que cuando se encuentra entre grandes multitudes se conserva para toda la vida. Esa amistad que no tiene obstáculo, más bien siempre se apoyan y no se critican ni se juzgan más. Que bien sonríen y lloran juntos esa que te llena de alegría y felicidad, es esa familia que antes de ser familia son amigos y esas amigas o amigos de infancia que antes de ser amigos son familia.

De mi niñez, de mi adolescencia y de mi vida adulta; esa amistad que con el pasar de los años logra romper uno y miles de obstáculos, amistad en donde hasta cumplimos objetivos y metas juntos, amistad en donde hay una complicidad y alianzas en el andar de la vida. Tan profunda es la amistad que hasta terminamos convirtiéndonos en compadres o comadres. Esas amistades que tratan a tu hija como si fuera suya o esa gran hermandad en donde valoran a tus padres como de ellos que hasta te ayudan a cuidar de ellos, como un gran tesoro.

Doy gracias a Dios por regalarme la familia que tengo y las amistades que terminan siendo mis hermanos y familiares. Gracias a Dios por seguir permitiendo que esas grandes amistades aún se conserven y que sigan creciendo en cada proyecto de mi vida.

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Great to see you writing in Silver Bloggers. I find it easier reading a dual language post if one part is English and then the second part is Spanish. When it is mixed language like one paragraph Spanish one paragraph English one paragraph Spanish it is harder to read.
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