And I want to do it daring to speak about a topic that it is perhaps a taboo among women of my age.Dear community of #Silverbloggers I greet you thanking to be here for the first time.
Sexuality in maturity: a trip of tenderness and authenticity
There is something that has always concerned me, and on several occasions I have commented with my friends and it is that in a mean while we are advancing in life some ladies lose interest in sexuality. Great mistake of many because sexuality is transformed and redimensioned, we can even make new dimensions of meaning that often go unnoticed, especially in women over 60 years.
It is painful to see how society stigmatizes sexuality in the elderly, as if from a certain age intimacy and desire had to go out.I have decided to recognize that my sexuality is an integral part of who I am, regardless of age.
Dear friends, sexuality is not limited to the physical act, we learn that from the first classes in school.
It is much more than that and there lies everything, to understand that it is an expression of our intimacy and love.
I want to tell you that at this stage of life, I have experienced changes in my body, menopause has come to make its own affecting my sexual health for a while.They were changes challenging me, and I decided not to see them as the end of desire.
But quite the opposite, I began to take care of my sexuality and my health at all.
In addition to the doctor visits, the communication was the key.
I looked for ways to share my desires, fears and expectations with my partner and we set an atmosphere of trust. I did not lock myself but took out the light and thus the affective ties were strengthened.
With my closer friends we have decided to make a circle to share issues like this; sexuality in maturity is a stage of many possibilities that we must dismiss.What a better way to start talking about it without complexity. And start accepting and celebrating our sexuality, regardless of age. It is the greatest act of self -esteem.
Thank you for reading my post. I invite you to continue addressing our sexuality with tenderness, knowledge and, above all, with authenticity.
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Well, I am pretty young to say anything about how it might feel about sexuality during 60s. Nevertheless, I believe it is an innate desire that is not supposed to fade away with age.
The society and its norms make us think and act in certain ways which become a factor for dismissal of some natural desires. It's quite common to look down upon the need of sexuality among aged women.
I agree that sexuality is not merely a physical desire. It is the manifestation of genuine love. The absence doesn't afect the women's physiology but also emotional well-being
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It is true, at all age we must love and value ourselves.
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Sexuality, like everything related to an individual's personal development, will always accompany them in the expression of their own sexual identity and its various modes of projection.
It's great that you address these topics, which are so necessary to disseminate them in order to break the taboos that still exist.
Sexuality is everywhere like air you breathe even if you cover your nose.JJJ thanks for passing.
Exactly!
Thank you for the opportunity.
I think times are changing with each generation. Mrs T were talking and we both agreed we never heard either of our mothers talk about the menopause or troubles they were having. Now it is okay to talk about it and perimenopause that was unheard of before but is now accepted.
We age and you are so correct desire and sexuality don't just go away when you hit a certain number in age!
This is a friend.For example, my Madrenunca prepared us for the arrival of menstruation.I do do it with my granddaughters.
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An intimate and interesting confession, my friend...!!
At that wonderful age, you are accompanied by challenging attractions... You just have to discover them...
Thank you for your post...
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