Reminiscing is an interesting pastime.
We live in a world of ever-increasing immediacy; of instant gratification. We can look at that an objectively say things along the line of "isn't it cool that we don't have to WAIT so long for that!"
I suppose I should preface these words with the disclosure that I am getting older, which also means that I am old enough to reflect on the fact that even though we have gained some benefits, we have also lost something.
What could we possibly have lost?
Longing.
In some sense, our world of immediacy is making the human experience of longing obsolete. Is that necessarily a bad thing? Maybe not — if you stick to an entirely functional interpretation — but it is definitely an integral part of the human experience that has been with us for millennia.
We are becoming increasingly accustomed to the idea that when we want something, we can have it immediately. There is no waiting. There is no longing to have something you want... until you can actually get it.
I even experienced it this past weekend with my artwork at the fair... someone wanting to know if I could do something in a specific pattern/color. Which, of course, I could... but they "didn't want to wait."
It was almost as if the expectation was that I would somehow 3D-print what they wanted, on the spot.
Development and "Progress..."
I suppose we could just call it "progress," and it would be true... but there is still something lost.
It is definitely more practical to tap away at a computer keyboard than a typewriter... but I also recognize that I will likely never hear a sound like my mother's Corona, when she was corresponding with friends.
The idea of sending a handwritten (love?) letter and having to wait and wonder when a reply might come... and what would be in that letter... gone.
I suppose that part of what I am lamenting is that part of our sense of imagination is slipping away, because why would you need to imagine if you can always have the object of your desires immediately?
I found myself thinking about "Mail order" and the whole idea of sending away for things... same day delivery by Amazon? Not a thing.
You put a stamp on the envelope with your order form and check... and maybe ten days later what you'd ordered would show up and it all felt a bit like Christmas morning.
Relational Shortcuts... Another Loss
For me, one of the places the "loss" is perhaps greatest is in the way we form connections... truly getting to know someone has increasingly been replaced by the immediacy of "swipe right."
Convenient, perhaps... but it leaves us typically living at the surface; never getting beyond what immediately meets the eye.
Small wonder, then, that a deep commitment like marriage is also on the decline. Tinder sure as hell isn't going to tell you enough about someone to make such a commitment!
So is it all a "bad" thing? Or is our current state "good?"
I'm going to refrain from characterizing it in such a way and simply stick to the original premise that we are losing meaningful human experiences and emotions as a result of our increasingly immediate world.
Thanks for reading, and have a great remainder of the week!
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Being in Canada, Amazon is not immediate gratification. It will take at least a week and often a few weeks for something to arrive. I also live in the sticks so it is touch and go that the delivery guy will even bring my stuff to my house. I guess I am still living the good life? :-P
Welllll... maybe you do have the "luxury" of not having to be in a terrific hurry at all times!
We live just outside most delivery area limits so most things are brought to us by "standard" services. And I really don't mind!
OH I am in a hurry. I am constantly hurrying up to wait? 😂
Perfectly said, I agree with you 100%.
The world seems to be generally in a haste and along the line, we miss out some important things that we usually cherish
I think the main risk is that people forget that there is almost always a kind of "something" that has to happen between "I want that" and it arrives at our front door.
Sometimes the best part of a "thing" isn't necessarily the thing, it self, but the process.
Exactly 💯. That's very correct Sir
Instant gratification is the order of the day. When we want something, we want it now
Sadly, it does seem that way, at least for most people. I get a lot of joy from growing a garden... you plant something in spring and have to way till late summer or fall to harvest it; there is a lot of satisfaction in the nurturing and longing process.
That is very true, and you do reap what you sow.
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